| I think so, but not so fast.
So it's been 1 year since I got dumped and while i've push my f-close list pretty high it's only been with girls I wasn't interested in having anything more than a fling..
Last May though I hooked up with this chick, Chloe, smoking HB9, full of confidence, my type of girl.
The next day I acted like a total AFC and texted her, so we chatted a little but I completely put myself in the worst position ever, and she even told one of her friends that "she didn't give a damn about me". So after a week of conversation, I could feel she wasn't interested in anything more so I stopped talking to her.
One month and a half later, she starts "liking" all my facebook pictures, then see's i'm friends with a girl and comes to talk to me "Hey I saw you were friends with this girl, how did you meet? She's my brothers ex blablabla".
From then out, she would come to talk to me about 3-4 times a week on Facebook. I'd never initiate contact, and played it completely aloof.
Pretty quickly I feel she's attracted, and I even hear from a friend of hers that "She thinks i'm hot, but she doesn't know what to think of me".
So end of July i'm about to comeback from a 3-week kitesurf/party road-trip crossing France-Spain and Portugal and she texts me:
"Hey we finally got some sun out here in X! How are you doing?"
I answer playfully and suggest that we should grab a drink when I comeback (haven't seen her since the first time we hooked up - that being the ONLY time i've seen her).
"GREAT! Lets keep each other informed!"
Since that text, about 30 days have passed, and we've talked regularly on Facebook, but I feel like she's kind of getting turned off since one of her friends (with whom I hooked up in April - couple weeks before her) kind of told her to "get her hands of me".
So, for the actual news, we are both studying for finals at the moment. We chatted for about an hour & half Sunday, and today we talked for 25 minutes, didn't have much to say so I got out of there saying I had to leave. She told me goodbye (then I saw her disconnect from fbook - so she was probably just still on to talk to me) then 5 minutes later she came back on (I never disconnect straight after saying goodbye to a chick I want to get with, makes them wonder why i'm still online) and said:
"Btw, when are your finals over?"
I just answered "The 1st".
Then she left.
So, is this like an invitation for me to re-talk about that drink? Considering she also told me today that she was "fed up with studying and wanted to go out and relax".
I like the girl but I don't want to be put in a position where she can act like she's "in charge", like she did in the beginning. I've put myself in a position where she's the one chasing me, and I don't want to change it by asking her "Hey you wanna get a drink?".
What do you guys think?
CW
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My father once told me:"Son, we are good men in the family and don't have much weakness', but you'll quickly learn that women are our Achilles' heel."
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