I'm unsure of how the whole interaction should go when going out to meet chicks so I'm going to list the steps that i know of. Please correct me where i am wrong and if possible, comment on the lines with question marks.

The following is upon arriving at the club..

-Worry about whether your enjoying yourself(if not, do what needs to be done to enjoy yourself), do not let yourself go inside your head and worry about what other people are thinking or what the correct thing would be to say. If you do this it causes you to not pay attention to whats going on in the situation, thus easily forgetting names/faces/not following conversations properly so you can respond like you would/should. Just externalize the thoughts you have so that of you dont have anything to say, atleast your talkin shit(when chillin with mates and/or chicks?)

-Dont worry about what the chicks are doing. Act like your doing something or looking for someone. So you dont look like your there without any friends even tho you might be.

-Go dance and enjoy yourself, even tho people might think that u look like a cake(this is how youd make chicks wana come and dance/chill/look at you?) As your doing this you could occasionally look around as your dancing to notice chicks that might be admiring.

-Once you make eye contact with a chick as a result of you catching her admiring, you either approach her to either escilate the situation if your feeling confident or wink/stick you touch out at to show her that you dont give a fuck that shes looking(show that your use to getting attention from chicks. This might cause her to think that she needs to work to get you or be part of the fun that your having??)

-Not to sure about this next part but would you then make your intention clear showing her that your interested? Im guessing by looking at her differently?(different to ones your not interested in), using kino touches?.

-Then once you get a positive reaction from her you know you can move onto holding?/eventually kissing? And when would you know to escalate the situation to kissing or whatever the next step is?

hey man, here is a rough overview of a checklist for going out at night

-have fun
-if not having fun, do something retarded for fun
-talk to people
-dance with girls
-try to kiss girls
-ask girls home

and not nessicarily in that order or anything, most of the nights consist of DURRR JAGER BOMBS!! YAY, HEY YOU!, tell me about blah blah...

if you have some sort of hangup on kissing or something, just pick one night to exclusively kiss girls, just one after the next, boom boom boom, hey your cute whats your name, blah blah blah, if the girl looks happy to talk with you after you told her she is cute and starts talking back without getting defensive, taaadaaa, try to kiss that girl, if trying to kiss a girl = akward talking that goes no where for you, just say, would you like to kiss me?

and beyond that, getting girls to your house, if your only goal of the night is sex, then work backwards to find girls that are available for it, find out if a girl is available to come back to your house early, who she is there with (the more people, the more social pressure is on her to not look like a ''slut''), how late she is staying (if she has work and is leaving early, it will be harder), how her and her friends all know each other (if she has a bf, it will be hard), it is also important to consider if you or her live close to the venue, what the situation would be like getting her home, and how you could go about it, other then that, too much thinking, and you will fuck yourself in your own ass and just end up at some table or walking around aimlessly or standing up agaisnt a wall, thinking of what you should do, instead of doing anything, just keep things as simple as humanly possible