Today i want to discuss something that is VERY important. I think this needs to be discussed because so many guys don’t understand the importance of “Inner Game”. Inner game is VERY important because its what you are left with when that girl that just left your place is gone out of your life forever. It’s what you are left with when one day you don’t hear back from any chicks that you recently picked up. See what I’m getting at?

Throughout your life in the game, you WILL encounter some bumps in the road but it is important that you continue to move on and be you. You MUST not look for validation by how many chicks you can sleep with or pick up. Ultimately you cannot FULLY control if this happens.

I ran into this issue. I looked for validation through my dating/sex life., how many chicks i could pick up and get day 2′s with. If things were going great i was the happiest camper. If not i was angry at everyone, and felt like a failure. i had to realize that “gaming” isn’t what life is all about. Its about much more, dreams, family, ambitions, careers, finances. It is important that you DO NOT let the game poison your mind with considering EVERY interaction you have a pick up. I ran into this problem where i use to analyze EVERYTHING because the game had consumed my mind. “Did i say that right?” “How was my body language?” “Did i neg her?” Etc. It is important to create a balance! Have a balance in your life, its not all about how many women you have. Its about you doing what you want, and continuing down the path to success and fulfilling your ambitions.

This was something i was thinking about this morning and just wanted to let you guys know, DON’T LET the game and pickup artistry consume you….stay focus on your life, create a balance.

Sure it's a nice post, but it doesn't belong in the "Sticking Points" forum.

-Wolf