So met this girl a while ago at a bar wit a wing. Jealousy plotline, kino hug, kiss on the forehead, all that jazz.

A week later we head out for a D2 and then later for a D3 at a club(bad place for Comfort I know, but I was desperate for a D3) with her buddies. I solo and sarge all her buddies and get acceptance from her friends. For some odd reason, the club had tons of my buddies there by coincidence, they all gave me attention, accomplisment intros and social proof big time. It was my lucky day or something .

Later we head home and I knew I coula K closed but did not, I'm an idiota I know. We head back to her apartment where I dropped her and her buddies off and I played it cool by hugging her and kiss on the forehead and said, "I'll talk to you later."

I knew nothing would happen, her buddy was staying over that night.

Now, this girl won't give me the time of day for a D4. I played my cards right, or so I thought .

I need some suggestions, I called her a couple times, each time she said she was busy doing something or other, I offered meet ups, but got cold sorry replies with no offer for rescheduling.

Is she playing hard to get? and If so, should I continue 2 steps forward one step back? or just drop it altogether?

P.s. how do I turn this situation around, and have her chase me instead of my doing all the chasing???

Okay you've called her a few times and got blown off a few times. It's time to leave her alone and cut your losses. If you keep calling her your DLV yourself and make her uncomfortable. Find another girl!

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Game over.

if you ever become desperate you will convey it, whether it body language tonality or whatever. better luck next time.

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Ahh I mean, I think you should take JSmooth's advice

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You're right, thanks for the warning about DLV ing myself by keeping up with telephoning her.

Knowing when to cut your losses is one of the first big hurdles that every up-and-coming PUA needs to get over. I agree with Roads and Smooth. And who knows, maybe she is turned off by the fact that you are trying so hard and by backing off a bit, she might call you. But don't hold you breath. Your better off picking up where you left off with your sarging.

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