| I thought this would be more appropriate in this section, but here's something I wrote up on how to get good with women fast. I hope this helps in your sticking points!
There’s no special pill.
There are no magic words.
But there’s something even better…
YOU.
Okay, enough cheesiness for one moment. But it’s absolutely true. You are the key to making this happen for yourself. The only thing that gets in the way is your mind. That stupid little voice that says:
“I’m scared”
“I’ll get rejected”
“What if people see me?”
“I’m not good enough”
Let me say, in the most professional way, FUCK that voice. That’s not you. That’s your scumbag brain trying to mess with your improvement. Tell it to shut up. Instead listen to ME. There are 3 easy actions to take in order to get good fast:
1) Talk to everyone, always. Whenever you get out of the house and come across people at the bus stop, train station, school, grocery store, etc. always look for an opening for conversation. Get your brain used to having conversations with strangers. In other words, be social. Embody what it ‘s like to be a talkative, interesting and social person. It doesn’t matter what you say or how you say it, just talk. You’d be surprised how many people will respond. Here are a few examples:
“I couldn’t help but over hear you say xyz, well I also xyz”
“The weather is so nice/bad today, I love it/hate it”
“I love (insert grocery/purchase item here), I use/buy/read that all the time”
2) Flirt with every woman. Okay, maybe not your grandma, but any woman you come across, throw in a few flirts. Now you’re getting used to know what it’s like to be a flirty man. Show your intent! You’re going to need these skills when the time comes to flirt with the women you actually want. Compliments work great. Here are a few examples:
“That (insert clothing item here) is really sexy”
“We’ve been talking for about 5 minutes now and I just noticed how beautiful your eyes are”
“You have the sexiest…little…elbows!”
3) Set a plan and be consistent. Although this is #3 in the list, it is the most important. Check your schedule and set 1 week aside (which really isn’t that long) and go out EVERY one of those nights. In most cities you should be able to find something going on, whether it is an event or club/bar. You can go alone or go with a wingman; it doesn’t matter. Go out and talk to people. Approach people. Make friends and conversations. Flirt with every woman! The trick is to make sure you don’t skip ANY night. Not even one. The goal is to go out seven nights in a row. By the fourth night you are going to start feeling something special, you’ll see.
If you want to get good at something fast, then the key is to repeat, fail, repeat, fail, repeat, and fail, until you succeed. Never give up. Even if it is the hardest thing to accomplish, DON’T GIVE UP.
I heard a quote once that if you take one more step past the hardest point, then that’s where you meet success. So the question is, how bad do you want it? _________________ My FREE E-BOOK for instant attraction: 10 Simple & Unknown Tips to Increase Attraction - http://www.trippadvice.com
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