Ok so ive been posting like crazy looking for answers because i really want to learn and heres another sticking point, im wondering if anyone has any good material on becoming better in bed and lasting longer, my big problem is lasting longer so i wana get better at it, any reccomendations?

Google "David Shade"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

oh i have been there.

well i think we all know what would get us to bust a nut so to speak.

so i think the first thing is to figure out what gets you to do that then after you know your sweet spots you can stray away from them till your ready to let your partner have it.

so like i know that if i go fast for long periods of time them i bust. so i dont.
i also know that if its going in straight then i bust fast too.

so switch it up get uncomfortable and do it.

like think of it this way. when you are masterbating, are you comfortable. yes you are. you wont be able to finish unless your comfortable.

also people under value the power of their minds. if your like thinking about how awesome it feels them you cum. but if you are thinking of something that doesnt turn you on your not going to cum. your thing will stay hard so long as you maintain flipping back and forth between turn on and off's

well thats my method. hope this helps

also it would be good to have a gf or fwb that you could build stamina with.

@heywood : thanx for the info, im gna look him up
@shane: ye tend to do that sometimes, il think of an old fat chick or something , but for some reason it still turns me on, haha jk, ive also heard about jelking, any feed back on that, its suppose to help the penis grow and also help in lasting

well i know that not jerking it is unhealthy. but never heard about it growing cuz of jerking it. but i do know that jerking more doesnt mean you will last longer. because you orgasming faster or slower doesnt have to do with how much you orgasm.

have you ever had it were you have sex back to back like multiple rounds???

you still cum as fast as you did before. the times you last longer is when you get physically exausted and your not thinking about how it feels but how tired you are. so that goes back to your mind. if you are thinking of something other than sex, i.e. your paycheck or your responsibilities. stuff that doesnt co-inside with sexual things then your not thinking of what makes you cum.

you knw what, that is true, when i have sex back to back i get fuken tired especially if the girl is just laying there and i forget about everything else besides how tired i am, mmm makes perfect sense

I used to have the same problem, as most men do. Overcame it mentally but most logical questions always pops up: Why would you want to last longer?

And since I know the answer you're going to say, know that penetration almost never causes female orgasm. Learn all of the parts of the clitoris and how to use your hands. Trust me. If you know how to do that, you can get her to orgasm really quick. THEN when she orgasmed many times, go in. You will feel much better at this point because she is well beyond satisfied and you will put much less pressure on yourself. After you do this and if, for any reason, you don't want to ejaculate, pull out and use your hands again. Stimulating the clitoris the right way will make her orgasm again. It will be much easier for her to do if she already did it on the first stage. You will lower your peaking level and you can go in again. She will think you're the master.

Whack off like a maniac. This is a tried a true method tested by me. You can whack off so hard and so many times to a point that sex can go on for as long as you desire, even longer in most cases.
I whacked off like 2-4 times a day for several months of my life. Interesting period. The result, well it took a tad longer to get aroused, but i could last forever. I kid you not that every time i had sex in this period i never came first, like 30 percent of the time i never came at all. Try it if you want. Whack it hard, get used to a lot of friction and really fast. This sounds fucking weird and awkward i know but trust me you can desensitize your little man because i did it myself. This, however, is not really too fun because at a certain point you really wish you could just bust during sex. I actually did this to a point where i had trouble maintaining an erection during sex because i was so used to the much faster/harder masturbation technique i had practiced. There are happy mediums however, as i found that too. I laid off the masturbation and had more sex. I still masturbate hard/fast sometimes when i want to really last a while that night, just nowhere near as frequently as i used to.
Another way, a bit more difficult yet better, is to just have sex more. Have sex as much as possible, the more you do it, the easier it will be to last longer, you'll get accustomed to the feeling.
My answer is probably pretty blunt, but it works 100%.

@pickwick ye i figured, i just got white tiget tantra and i feel like the technique i learned ther are gna turn me into a Master in bed, pretty good stuff so i will do

lol damn whacking off 2 to 4times a day, im gna try to fit that in my schedule, i work out alot so i may do that on my off days from the gym