So i started seeing this girl at uni in the last month or so. I had known her prity well for a lot of the year and we were prity close, i was also really good friends with her friends so we hung out as a group quite a lot. I never slept with her but i did other stuff, in the last like 2 weeks of the year we got prity much every day, i would say that she's quite a cautious person and wanted to take things fairly slow.
So she's going to go to my uni next year, this year it was a one year course, next year i said that it would be nice to keep things going, and she agreed.
But now, its the summer holidays, almost four months, she lives a good 4 hours away from me, and i duno what to do. I've been texting her quite a bit but I'm worried that i will come across to into her, even though text wise, she seems just as keen as me. I am more of a fan of playing hard to get, I'm kindov bored though and would really like to see her. What sort of setting would be good to do, by means of meeting up, don't just want to invite myself to stay. Is it better to be distant for a while, or will that kill stuff. Basically i want to get though this summer, and still have something, what should i do?
I really would appreciate some help, I'm not unsuccessful with women but I've never had a potential relationship scenario and I'm just worried to screw it up.
Thanks again

this section is sticking points. not problem with one girl, that being said, invite her to stay for a couple days.

where should i have posted?

Welcome to the forums, Ronson. After you have something like 25 posts, you can create a topic in the Relationship forum (which is probably where this belongs).

As for now, there's not all that much you can do. Four hours is a long way. Honestly, what you SHOULD do is try and meet people where you are at and develop a social life for the summer months. The harder you chase her, the faster she'll run away. If she likes you, then you can always start things up when you get back to school. You're not doing yourself any favors by trying for a long-distance relationship situation.

Also, yeah, if you think she'd be up for it, then just invite her over. However, you can't act upset if she declines your offer.

-Wolf

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