Ok so not Blowing my trumpet here but i work pretty hard in the gym and got the muscles to show for it. i often catch girls looking at me when i wander about as i style up in a way that i can show off my muscles. however, i have noticed that at times women give themselves any excuse when possible to touch me. here are two scenarios:

Girl 1: i was trying to chat up in the club, seen her a few times in the gym, so i initiated a conversation. moments later she was touching my biceps but it wasn't a feel up, because it was for seconds, but she did it none the less. she got my number but nothing really happened.

Girl 2: really wanted to bone her but from what i've heard, her SPAM who also happens to be my friend, had already been there. she came in through the door and gave off the vibe of being an attention seeker so i made sure i didn't give her any and interacted with the only other female in the room. froze her out of a couple of conversations where she tried to put her 2 cents in. so she initiated contact with me - introduced herself to me and said shit like "Im quite a sociable person, and tries to get along with everyone in her house" fair enough. then caught her checking me out on the mirror which was facing me when she was doing her hair, later on i got up and she came over and felt my bicep saying "Is this all you do at the gym?" i played it off saying " nah only when i dont train biceps in a cheeky way. later on we drove to town and she told me about my mate shes hooked up with (shes been talking about her hookups all night which put me off a bit). but things i thought i did wrong were not isolating her (kinda hard when my mate and possibly her FB is hanging about.

those are only two of MANY MANY occasions where ive had women feeling me up. i even had a girl stroking my "area" after 5 mins of meeting her through her friends. (Dont worry i boned her because id be a absolute dum arse to let a blatant IOI like that slip)


so my question is what i could have said or done differently in these scenarios to get me somewhere? i let shit like this pass all the time and quite honestly im selling myself short. i get some gorgeous girls checking me out but i cant differentiate with them just checking me out because i look so different than every other lad out there or if they are genuinely attracted to me. thanks in advance