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From your post i think your a bit to aggressive and kinda give off the vibe you just want her for the sex as she does not react or call the day after. When i go on a first date i never go for the sex yet, i just make her feel comfortable around me and warm her up then next time i see her its way easier to escalate.
Or clarify that you're not gonna sleep with her that night(which you would not) and then qualify her to come to your place or invite urself by coming up with a believeble reasonable excuse or a justification. You might just say something stupid for example:
PUA:"Hey what is your favourite food(or it doesn't matter what you say)."
HB:"mmm, Chinese."
PUA:"Oh I love chinese food. Look there's a chinese restaurant nearby. Do you wanna go for a meal, I'm starving."
And take her to a place which is near you, or if you can cook just cook something together.
It doesn't matter what it is. As long as she likes you she'll comply and follow you(Girl like guys that lead them to do something interesting) so you're in a win win situation.
In time you'll learn how to do that with easy and more subtle(which is the point of making her convince herself that she wants to fallow you!)
But girls like sex anyway and I've had girls that I lost due to desire to fuck them too late. It would be either on or off but you don't lose anything so GO for it!
The point here is that if can make her that comfortable she'll fallow and you don't have to sleep with her on the night if you don't feel like it's caliborated or she wanst you. Instead what you can do is. Have a lovely time together make your separate bed to sleep in and if she doesn't want you to sleep next to her(the chances of witch are pretty much nothing) you bone her in the morning instead. Or bone her in the morning again
You end up losing nothing and just taking the opportunities that logistics can offer you. It sounds pretty hard but it's literally the easiest thing on earth
Good luck buddy
