ok so ive noticed some women turn of me for some reason like last night i opened a 4 set and played pool with my target doubles and we won so that was cool then i left but promised her a dance at the club next door and i hear her calling my name so i went over had a chat little then she went on to the dance floor and i said no come sit for a bit cos i didint want to jump into her hoops to soon and i guess nether did she cos she went dancing anyway so 5 mins later she returns with her friend to get me so she is chasing me showing interest so i reward her with compliance but warn her im a terrible dancer and the only way we can dance is dirty dancing she laughs and and says ok now were on the dance floor and i kiss her their and its all good i do mysterys line of what measure we take to meet up again and it worked like a charm so anyway 5 mins later i can feel this interaction going cold her friend goes distant to and when i go up to say goodby i kiss her but her friend tells me to FUCK OFF and were not going home with you so i told her she was jealous and left. next day i send her a text got no reply a few hours later im in the club and i see her and her friend say gday but they snobed me for some reason then later i tried have a covo but that sucked so i start chatting to some bloke and i her her tell her friends that im a jerk what the fuck man were am i going wrong and what can i do to fix this i dont set out to be a jerk in fact i always thought i was a polite person who respects women.

cheers ICON

Probably because you insulted her friend "hoes before bros" kind of thing.

Would've been better to respond to that with saying "who said I even wanted to go home with you, wish them a good night" or "I think you need to put more work into your mind reading skills because that thought hadn't even crossed my mind" and move on.

Hope you get the idea, best way is to be non reactive or insulting to her friend when she says something like that, like you don't get insulted from some fire breathing douchette.

thanks Lbot i understand what your saying their but what should i be looking in to to better that part of my calibration is that inner game or natural stuff i should of been able to think of that stright away

Inner game and being natural kind of blend together. Really I would just work on being less reactive to outside influences like that girl. If you shrug off the insult like she can't destroy your state which is exactly what she tried to do.

You are going to be alot more attractive to her friend because she knows that you don't sweat in those situations. Therefore you are to cool to miss out on.