I was taking to this girl and I was doing great with comfort like I always do, than it hit me that I have no idea what attraction is, I have never felt it before so I don't know what it is, can someone explain it to me?

attraction is comfort + sexual escalation.. simple as that

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attraction is simply a perception of ''value'', value is simply reward vs cost,

alot of guys simply have no confidence, they start to talk to girls that are attracted to them, and because the girl isn't blatently shoving her tits in their faces they assume the girl doesn't like them a puss out hardcore, don't worry about attraction all too much, just have fun and test compliance, if the girl is compliant, she is attracted (easy enough?)

there are many forms of value, but when it comes to just plain sex and sexual attraction, in my opinion the two most important forms of value that will increase how sexually attractive you are, are

1)your personality
2)your looks

when I say personality I mean everything that is entailed in your personality but mostly how confident you are, personality depending on the girl will almost always hands down take you the furthest then any other form of value, confidence is absolutely key, without confidence, you will not be seeing alot of women in your life, unless you have an extreme amount of value in a different department to make up for it

looks is self explanitory

as for what is ''attraction'' in the mystery method sense, that is more along the lines of emotional attraction, aka likability

and chances are you certainly have felt attraction for someone before (in the mm sense), it is simply liking them (not nessicarily in a sexual way), and this again leads back to the concept of ''value'', and relates to your social skills and ability to stimulate emotions, if you want to ''create attraction'' in the mystery method sense, you simply give as much benifit as possible, with as little cost as possible, (telling stories, making people laugh, teasing, giving compliments, stimulating emotions)

Thanks guys

Hey

There are some good replays here and i would just like to add some to it.
Like David Deangelo sais "Attraction is not a choice." A girl will feel attraction when you make her FEEL it. There are thousands of ways to do this and it depends on the situation. But one way is by showing qualities every woman is looking for in a man like confidence, pre selection from woman, not needing it too bad (Mystery said that the best way to pick up a women is to not care weather it goes good or not), protection etc...

You can show these qualities by push and pull, social proof, routines, negs, good posture, voice tone, telling stories, playing games.

Hope it helps