Hello. Recently I've noticed i got a problem at gaming older (3+ year old ) girls.I am 18 years old. (I'm attending last year of highschool) Now, I have 0 problem gaming/talking to same aged or slightly older girls, but when i see say 23 or 24 year old girl i bassicaly drop my pants. I can approach them and start conversatins but I am afraid to escalate because I am afraid I'd instantly get blown off by something like: how old are you, etc. or that older guy would approach and I would instantly lose value. I know this is just a complex inside my head, an imaginary object, but i need some insight on how to overcome this, because i don't want to limit myself to hooking up with girls my age only. Also, what are main differences in gaming 18-20 year olds from older women?

Thanks in advance.

Whats the difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old... a 25 year old is hornier, more comfortable with herself, more comfortable with sex, and just more experienced in the bedroom.

Dont worry about the worst case scenario, and instead think about the best case.

When you drop your own limiting beliefs then you'll realize that its not that big of a deal, i almost exclusively go go for older girls, and when i first started out i always hit the wall, but i realized that if you dont make it into a big deal then she wont either.

And if she does ask about your age a good simple line would be something like "i was wondering the same about you, you seem a little young for me" LOL REFRAME she'll be really taken back by that one!!

Also, wear shirts. Older girls love nice shirts.

And the guy above me is entirely right. It's way harder to f-close a 16-18 year old. 18+ is waaaaaay easier, since in general they have more experience.

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