Hello guys

Reffering on feedback and i describe myself as good looking guy duo to my physic and positive presence.. im not shy and im fun to to hang arround with.. witty humor and you can have a good conversation with me about any topic.. Im social and confident on allot of areas except well you can guesse , girls that i like.

It seems how much good feedback and rational thinking i cant get myself to actually believe im " the prize " as i can when rationally thinking. ( Thinking what i got to offer and that im a good energy.)

I have major problems approaching , i cant get out of my comfort zone.. when i get on with a random girl i meet its because she started it. I'm a over-analyzer. when in conversation with a girl i like i have the pressure of keeping the conversation going and i can't relax. I manage to , but it just feels fucked up.

Im a " natural " game , i can be witty and funny and allot of girls like me but those are the one wich i do like , but not sexually. It seems logical. I can relax arround those girls and they get to see the real me.

Why i dont approach girls? I dont really know. I really cant label the feeling i get when in the moment. Writing this i can think about it and be like Wtf dude its normal and it doesnt seem to be so scary , but when in the moment i just dont do it. Am i afraid of rejection? Maybe.. but i got rejected a few times and i didnt care allot.

I think its the fear of rejection , i just dont know. it doesnt really feel like fear , i just cant move myself to it.


I know i just have to do it allot and get used to it i think thats the only solution. Its so frustratin because i know i can pull this off but im just not grabbing my chances and im too shy to get sexual / show my intentions. Im too neat. I only go further if i get heavy compliance / ioi's

I would love to hear you thoughts about me. Thanks in advance.

hey dude, i used to have the same fear (and still kind of do for completely random approaches during the day). all it takes it making yourself do it man. at first it's pretty nerve racking but we overestimate the degree to which people can see us freaking out on the inside. the biggest thing that helped me be able to approach women was public speaking since i was forced into it from a young age. i still get nervous but the last ten of my interactions with beautiful girls (and i only approach 8s or above) have gone very well and ended up with a few number closes.
a stupid trick i use to kind of ease the tension when i approach a set is to ask 'hey can i buy a smoke?' in most cases they will say nah you can just have one. This is an easy way to start a conversation without as much anxiety. Afterwards if you're feeling a connection you can be like 'hey i have to get back to my friends, and just so you know i came to you cause you have an amazing smile, eyes, style, energy, vibe whatever' at this point you can go for the number if you're comfortable. if not you are just leaving on a positive note, no harm done.
if you don't smoke, there are other easy openers you can do. i usually refrain from opinion openers unless they actually do apply or i do want an opinion. i'll say hey i was walking by and you guys seemed cool/interesting/like you are having fun. once you get a positive reaction then it'll be much easier for you to adopt your natural game.
also, don't forget the kino, this is really key. i've never had a bad reaction from kino so if you escalate properly you have a hug or kiss on the cheek good bye and then you're in her mind.

good luck!