My biggest sp has been my almost complete inability to have a come-back. Of course, after a convo with a girl I always think of what I could've/should've said. Or what would've worked better. I have a buddy who had a come-back for everything, faster than you could blink your eye and it was always super good. Is this another facet of PU that can be developed or do you guys and girls think it is just something that comes naturally.

For example: HB8 at the gas station today ringing up my cold starbucks coffee. I make a comment about how the new doubleshot energy drink tastes like total shit, bla bla bla. While i'm mini-ranting about it she picks up my glass bottle and starts shaking it. It didn't even register with my brain at that second what she was doing until she put it down and said, "I don't know why I'm shaking that. That's one less thing you'll have to do." And my reply, you guessed it, was "Yep." I was distracted with the credit card scanner. Damn I've got so much good material for that right now, "Why are you touching my stuff? I'm gonna have to put that one back and get another one." "Did I say you could touch my coffee?" Why can't I process this stuff while i'm right there? Is there some material I can read to help me with this? AHHHHHHHH it's so frustrating!

Does this happen to anyone else and if so, what have you done to improve your response time?

You must adopt a "troll" state of mind. Yes, troll women. Basically, become a very frolic, lighthearted a-hole. Within this state of mind, the comebacks will flow naturally to you.

Thanks for the reply.

I have no problem being a sarcastic smart ass with anyone (family, guys, friends) but when it comes to the girls I want, I can't do it. I know it's because I have the fear. Rejection, turning her off, looking like an asshole. I need to transform these weaknesses into strengths but I don't know how yet.

Convince yourself you are the catch - because you are.

You must be confident. How does one get confidence? Have a great lifestyle and love yourself. Pursue your favorite hobbies. Do things you love and are passionate about. Become someone you would hang out with if you saw at a party or walking down the street.

Once you live a good life and enjoy & love yourself, once you really enjoy life and love and live it to the fullest...women will flock to you. You won't even need as much 'game.'

You're gonna feel like a boss.

Psychological research has shown drastic changes in our cognitive process when around beauty, so it's not you it's something completely normal to expierence.

i don't think it is a problem mate, it's usually a shit test ... your doing the right thing to think of the 'would be' responses because if it occurs again you know how to handle that shit, it is like doing your home work. Alternatively, you can totally ignore what she said and re-open or ask a question and best Neg her... " Is that your natural hair colour ??" that'll put her back in her place of an insecure, self conscious little girl even if she's a 10. lol

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