approaching problems!



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 9 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Tools & Techniques of Game: Meeting, Attracting and Seducing Women » Sticking Points


Forum rules


A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
Quote:
I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
Quote:
I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



Author Message
 Post subject: approaching problems!
PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:27 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum
User avatar

Joined: Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:01 am
Posts: 115
guys, I'm new 2 game. My major sp is I CAN'T OPEN ANY SET! Had this for almost 2 weeks now. Any help?


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 2:38 pm 
Offline
King Among Mortals
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm
Posts: 7592
Location: United States
Quote:
guys, I'm new 2 game. My major sp is I CAN'T OPEN ANY SET! Had this for almost 2 weeks now. Any help?
Go practice! go to any mall/shopping area, walk around, make eye contact, and just say. HI

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:00 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Apr 03, 2012 1:29 am
Posts: 27
Location: USA
just hold eye contact with everybody men included and say whats up or hey or hows it going.

also you can stop random women and just ask em for the time then say ok thanks then leave. or pay them a legitimate compliment then say thats al i just wanted to let you know that. you'll see women are so easy to talk to if you dont have this akwardness or neediness that it'll come naturally.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2012 12:30 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon May 21, 2012 11:54 am
Posts: 3
Location: Johannesburg
What iv learned to do is you check out something that stands out maybe her watch or necklace and compliment it

Me: " hey that's a pretty cool watch "
She: " derp"
Me: " that's cool , so how do you know these guys ( if she's in a group) and introduce yourself

That way you can bail out when you get too nervous or carry on making conversation if it's flowing


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2012 4:36 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Wed Apr 25, 2012 2:52 am
Posts: 34
Location: Long Island NY
The rejection-proof opener...

The functional opener: An opener that has a specific purpose within the given situation can both be part true and part plausible deniability of the artist hitting on the girl...

For someone starting out, and having difficulty approaching, this is the way to go. Is it boring? Yes. Is it likely to lead to attraction? No. But its a place that you can start just to go out and get used to talking to people.

Functional opener examples:
What time is it?
Do you know where the bathrooms are?
Do you know where's the nearest coffee shop?

Basically anything that serves a purpose, and think about it, can a girl really get mad at you for saying this? Imagine:

PUA: Do you know what time it is?
HB: Sorry i have a boyfriend

LOL obviously this isnt going to happen. Just ask stupid functional questions, say thank you and leave. After you do this for a while, try and start transitioning, but dont be surprised when that becomes a new sticking point. Please always remember, if you knock out your sticking points one by one without getting too distracted, you'll be working out the easiest way to get a threesome in to time at all.

Hope this helps


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2012 3:38 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Apr 24, 2012 5:37 pm
Posts: 156
The functional opener is easily one of the best ways to work on opening. Ask for directions.

You can also start opening people who HAVE to talk to you. Go to the mall, and every time you walk into a store, ask a salesperson for help. Try to ask different questions, just so you get stuck robotically asking the same thing to everyone. If you just get used to going off the top of your head with some harmless salespeople, you might gain some momentum and feel like talking to a complete stranger.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2012 6:21 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot

Joined: Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:38 pm
Posts: 332
Website: http://www.sparrowwslair.wordpress.com
Location: Minneapolis, MN
Stop being a pussy. Walk up to a girl, tell her she looked interesting/pretty/whatever and you wanted to come introduce yourself.

Opening isn't difficult, it's just a matter of not being a little bitch. 8)


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2012 9:10 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sun Jan 01, 2012 7:56 am
Posts: 37
Location: Lion City
It's not easy till you make the first step! I tried for the first time last night, still learning and doing my best to overcome this AA. With practice makes perfect! Read up more if you can.

_________________
Confidence is the key


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 8 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link