I've managed to hook up with this incredible, easy-going HB8 and was able to f-close at the end of an awesome serendipitous evening. I must admit that she's an old friend, but still. I was pretty amazed that I was able to pull it off. Before getting into the PU scene she never gave me the slightest hint of being interested but maybe that's because I didn't know what to look for.

My problem: what to do after the f-close? Damn, there's so much useful stuff to find about what to do to get to the f-close, but there's no after-guide. It's like trying to get rich and actually succeeding: what to do next? Life seems so boring now...

...not really. It's awesome!

Anyway, here's how I feel about it: I don't feel like having a relationship right now (although I really like her), but I don't want to ruin my chances of being able to make a bootycall either (does that sound harsh?). She's sent me a message to say that she had an awesome evening and that she should try to live "more serendipitously" which seemed like a big indicator that she wants to do it again? I haven't replied yet because I don't want to seem like an AFC.

Is there a way to put her in the LJBFWAOBFN-zone (Let Just Be Friends With An Occasional Booty Call For Now) or should I just try to get over it and and all the "plenty of fish in the sea" crap before this turns into a dramatical case of oneitis?

And to all the beginning PUA's out there: focus on KINO! It does WONDERS! Without the kino your lines/theories are worthless, no matter how good they are.

Zoo.

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I would call her the next day and tell her you had a great time. That doesn't mean you have to date her. You just want to reassure her that she didn't make a bad decision in fucking you. If you don't, she'll most likely get buyer's remorse and punish herself. Good luck getting pussy at that point. You don't have to send flowers or anything else bro. Just be cool and be the same as before you fucked her.

Keep gaming other girls though and making other Day 2's with chicks.

Pick up is just that, PICK UP. There isn't really any advice I would take from PUAs after the close, because you should be on your own at that point. The game is attracting, now its time for you to do what you would naturally do.

NO your both correct. Pick up is pick, but if you want to keep a girl you have to play it the same way when you meet her cool and fun. attraction is attraction it comes and goes, but it is one of the key points in a relationship without it she will get bored and leave or in the same case so will you. PUA teach life skills that can used in any phase of a relationship witch is how to communicate better ,also keep attraction ,and in reality you can use this skill outside the seduction community as well.

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Called her the other day to tell her I had a great time! Worked like a charm. I was getting afraid she might end up having buyer's remorse and making it too awkward to be in the same room ever again.

She called me the day after my call and asked me to join her to the trainstation (and to her place). It was late and she was scared shitless. I said that I had other stuff to do, but that she could call me whenever something was wrong. A tough shit-test though, trying to ignore a damsel in distress although I was sure she was overreacting. After that she's been been texting me like crazy so I told her to cool down for a while so there is still some inbox space left for important people to message me too (C&F). (girls owning) Cell phones can be so damn annoying some times. Now she even apollogizes for every text she sends me, it's hilarious!

I'll probably see her again sometime tomorrow. Lets see if I can turn this into a MLTR. One never can get too greedy
I've been trying to keep gaming other girls too, avoiding to slide into one-itis. Not very succesfully though, but the main thing is that I'm out there again.

Thanks again for your help!

P.S. Lollercoaster, I completely understand what you mean with being yourself. But look at the shit-test: if I would have 'been myself' I would have been in the trainstation fighting of possible hazardous bums with no legs in no time, instantly putting my picture under the word 'pussy-whipped'.

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