SO i have practicing a lot of frame control on the girl that i am presently dating. Tonight we went on a date and throughout the whole thing I had the frame. I didn't do shit for her, I set the date on my own time. SHe made me dinner and dessert. AFter dinner we went to her bed to watch a movie and this lead to cuddling. Now I knew that i would having trouble mainting control in bed so i told myself i was going to show disinterest by not cuddling for a bit, but then when she did something i like I would pull her in to snuggle. This worked great, but usually she just wants to end up snuggling anyway. Cuddle then bed. Fuck. Even if i play solid game all night she still thinks its ok that we are just going to cuddle. How do i keep the frame in bed so much that i can control whether we are going to have sex or not?

Dude I think maybe its the emotional brian logical brain stuff. She just needs to be stimulated into having sex. I just come out of a pretty serious relationship and more often then not I would get much more sex out of the blue then when we organised it. 'HER-Ok lets have sex tonight'. Dosent work. You need to stimulate her emotional brain while talking to her logical brain. Its as if you are gaming her emotional brain while at the same time wingmaning her logical brain. It escelate well my friend.

This is an example I used but was consciousoly unaware that I was manipulating the emotional/logical brian theory.

You want a massage?
Yeah...
I go ahead and massage slowly making it more sensual (enticing her emotional brain) while talking to her at the same time controlling her logical brain. After every massage we would end up having sex. I usto think she was just toying me into giving her a massage in exchange for sex, and maybe she was, but I think it really was that she wanted to be stimulated and let her emotional brain allow her to have sex instead of making a conscious descision with her logical brain to have sex at say: 9:00.

I think this explains why I get stiffies when hot hair dressers cut my hair and chat at the same time. Although I am a guy and I only think with one brian mohhahHAHAHA.

Ways I escelate vary,
Take her top off, rub up the thights and buttocks gradually, bring my head in really close to her shoulders and lick/bite her neck, On rare occasions put my tounge down her ear. Take her pants off etc
(Make sure you do all of this while having a conversaiton)


Get her horny with your touch and talk to her with conversation.

Its a recepie for babies


Also, I think you need to remember you DONT need to control the frame all the time in a relationship. Frame control is just for pcik up. You should display alpha qualities but you dont want to be hitler either. A relationship is mutual my friend.

solid reply. I am quite keen on the message idea while talking to them normally. Its about subconsciously stimulating her body while distracting her logical mode. Thanks man.