Ok so technically this isn't sarging because I know the girl but I'm trying to practice a little on girls I already. Anyway I opened her a little while back because she was hanging with my crew one day and she was already in one of my classes so..

anyway her friends always come late so I usually keep her company but today I decided to stay in my regular seat.

*she walks in and sits down*
alekc:lol what r you doing come here
*walks over**hug*
we talk a little about random stuff
i use my "seseme street routine" which ends in you'd be such a bad mother lol
she of course laughed but I had nothing left.
I couldn't raise kino or make any kind of moves because
1.we're in a crowded ass class
2.We're only friends (I have little intrest in her other than social proof and practice)

what should I have done we barely had convo after that. I played it off by saying I was tired and put my head down but in reality I simply had nothing more to say if this was a sarge I would have had to walk away and open another set or stand there ............standing lol

I was thinking mayb I should stack routines or I should have done .....idk

so what can I do when it gets quiet
what are some good stackers
whats some good stuff to say during fluff talking
For this girl I had no problems because we're just friends and we talked about stuff like 2girls1cup(dont recommend on a sarge EVER)

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You know what your problem is?You're putting the pussy on a pedistal.

You should definitely stacked another routine or topic. That's exactly what you do in the field. Either learn more routines, or learn about the latest in the pop culture because girls are usually interest in that in some way, at least to have opinions on the stuff, which can lead into other discussions.

You need another story to transition and add some cocky funny in their after the story has been told. Practice using one story continuously until you can start with a new one.

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you don't need to memorize things to pick up women. you should practice on your friends for a while if it helps. guys or girls. just practice keeping the conversation going where you're comfortable at first. don't force it, don't try to entertain them, just try to have fun and be yourself.

maybe memorize a few interesting questions i guess, but use them as back up... try not to use them unless you have to. usually when i'm anywhere at all, i can basically just look at something like a watch, a table, a deck of cards or ANYTHING and just work with it. if not you can neg them about something they're wearing... or maybe ask them something to stimulate their mind.

PUA: so out of all the things you could have put on today, what made you choose that?

i say that sometimes, it's not exactly pua but it's funny because they wonder why. i just say because we dress ourselves every single day and we never realize why we pick out the clothes we do, etc... and just work with that or something

being cocky funny is also nice because if you make them laugh they'll send you IOIs. come up with random scenerios, say some funny things. watch a lot of stand up comedy and use/alter some of their material. everyone does it subconciously... that's where inside jokes come from.

another last resort may be fluff talk or afc conversation. where are you from, how was your day, what nationality are you, etc... it's not exactly afc if you extend the conversation in a way normal people do. body language, mirroring, eye contact can be huge. you CANT be intimidated by them.

sometimes we get so caught up in trying our best that we forget things, so treat them like a normal person. treat them like they are a best friend you haven't seen in YEARSSS. it helps. like you're just "catching up".

just be alpha, lead the conversation. practice with friends at first and don't feel forced to entertain them... you need to be the prize. and with that you'll end up more cocky/funny saying things that make you look slightly conceded with some sarcasm, it'll display confidence... and that's all it really takes to succeed anywhere in life.

good luck, hope that helps. if you gave us a more detailed analysis on the situation maybe we could help out more... you need to go with the flow so you can spend all your energy watching out for your next move and analyzing the target... how she's enjoying it, etc =). hopefully you can get to that level

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)