Seriously though....

Every single girl that I have number closed on, i turn it into a week-two week long process. (from other post) I end up with a friend in the end, but I am not getting any farther.

I can logically see this as a game and I am sure I can play it well. I just keep getting caught up on the "she is interested, I am going to see where this takes me" line of thought. It might sound heartless that I don't want that, but it is destroying my advancements in sarging. I get attached to every girl that IOI's me???? Even worse, I then start caring about their opinion.

e.g. just got put in the "ljbf" zone by another one today. I really REALLY want to change that because she is mad cool. I said something that I thought was an easy going funny thing. She took it a different way; now she froze me out!? haha, I sooooo do not want to chase, but I also am taking this to heart. Pondering what I did wrong, how i can fix it, what i should say to her. I mean, I know I should just toss this one and go back out, but instead I am sitting here with my cellphone in my hand debating whether or not to text her. I of course am not going to, but the fact that I am so caught up is a major problem.

How do i fix it!?

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[color=red:7c51ae7520]email is a better option: thelockestar@gmail.com[/color:7c51ae7520][/size:7c51ae7520]

Hey man the reason is it's just your personality man. In the end everyone has there own personality inside. Most people that are like you do what your doing and just ignore there old ways. And this my friend is the begining of changing your thought pattern and it's for the better or you wouldve been getting laid before . What you have to do is just keep practiceing and eventualy you won't have to think about what your doing next. you will just do it because you have trained youself in this way with dicipline. This will take some time but just hang in there and learn from your mistakes and move on.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

You might be falling into the trap many guys fall into: making pickup, sarging, and girls their main priority in life. Expand your interests, hobbies and activities so that you have a dozen different things going on for you. This way you aren't pouring all that surplus of energy, time and thought into this. You'll only drive yourself mad and it may actually hurt your game.

i have been trying to dig myself out of this hole for a few weeks now. i notice that there is more sexual tension instead of just tension when you bring up something subtly sexual in the first few lines of conversation. that way i believe it plants a sexual thought in her head when she sees you. like if there was a tall girl say something to her like "you may be sexy but you dont fool me amazon woman" or i met this girl who was wearing a black leather firefighter costume yesterday without the hat so i purposefully mistook it as her being emo. a guy came up and tried hitting on her so i said "hey buddy. she may be cute but this girl has some issues. she is emo and probably cuts herself. i mean... why would she be wearing long black sleeves?" i said this as i lifted her hand, held it in my right and lightly brushed her wrists with my left hand (i remember hearing something about hand touching in seduction and earlier yesterday in the mall a sales woman tried selling me hand cream and did it to me. i have to tell you, it works like a charm). anyway... after that i noticed her squeezing my hand a bit so i tossed it away and she completely ignored the guy, touched me and started off again with our conversation just with a different, more sexual, vibe. just experiment with this stuff. try throwing in random subtle sexual hints in there.

Is kino a sticking point for you? it's key for the escalation.

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did u try bleaching your pubes?

-Flarm

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Cuz I don't break hearts...I just dent them