I just got off the phone with our pua forum friend smooth. He says Hollywood I just can't find cheap date ideas in San Diego.So Here are some good ones for him and you all enjoy.
Newsflash Women have been on hundreds of dinner dates. They aren’t cheap, and they sure aren’t that impressive to a woman who’s been taken out to every restaurant under the sun. Here’s how to set yourself apart and show her a completely original experience that she can’t help but remember with these top 10 great inexpensive or free date ideas.
Number 10
Go where the action is A great way to ensure a fun-filled date with a woman is to take her to an area with a lot going on. Trendy outdoor malls with funky shops and street performers are a sure hit. The entertainment is built into the experience, and just strolling around and talking makes for a fun and carefree date.
Number 9
Be original Want to really blow her away? Do something she’s never done or even thought of before, and take her on a night hike. Grab a bottle of wine, a couple of glasses and a blanket, and take her on a short hike to a place that has a nice view. If your originality doesn’t wow her, the stars and the sights surely will.
Number 8
Get out of the house For a guaranteed good time, take her on a bike ride. Make sure there are some good places you can stop on the way for a quick break, like a juice bar or a coffee shop. For bonus points, pick a great destination like a park or the beach, and bring along some crackers, cheese and wine to share. Do this right and the next stop will be your place (so long as she doesn’t catch you making motorcycle noises).
Number 7
Spoil yourself If you want to show a girl some fun without spending a lot of money on her, bring her along while you spend some money on you. Women love to shop, and what woman could resist you calling her up and inviting her to come with you while you buy some new threads? Just be sure not to “wuss out” when you get there -- ask for her opinion, but don’t let her pick out all of your clothes. That’s what moms are for.
Number 6
Learn some new tricks Every girl loves animals (and those who don’t will never admit it). So for a great date, bring her along while you take your dog for a walk. This date is even better if you borrow a dog from a friend. Bring along some treats and have her help you teach the dog some new tricks. When she sees how good you are with animals, she’ll want you to teach her some new tricks as well.

These great inexpensive or free date ideas are sure to impress her... Number 5
Teach her somethingIf you can teach a woman something that she has always wanted to do, she will see you as “her hero” from day one. Take her surfing, teach her how to paint or grab some boxing gloves and show her how to throw a punch. She’ll remember you forever -- and you’re sure to have a blast.
Number 4
Keep it casual If you insist on taking her to a restaurant, don’t go the dinner route. Instead, grab a desert or take her to a place that serves up unique, exotic drinks. You’ll spend less money, show her a new experience and, most importantly, you won’t come off like you're “trying too hard.”
Number 3
Be a kid again Bring out her fun, carefree side by taking her to a park to swing on the swings. Get behind her and push her for bonus points, then put her on the merry-go-round and spin it around as fast as you can (just make sure she doesn’t fall off or start to feel nauseous).
Number 2
Enjoy the drama For a night of stimulating conversation, invite her over to watch the latest hot reality TV show. All women love reality TV, and with all of the drama you’ll be watching, great conversation is guaranteed.
Number 1
Get sneakyi f you’re feeling adventurous and you sense she might be up for some mischief, put together a “mission” to sneak into the pool area of a trendy hotel. If you get busted, you’ll have an awesome story to tell. And if you don’t? You get to see her in a bikini.

Good luck and if you have more ideas post them.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

awesome. sneaking into a hotel pool. great idea!

don't forget the classic date: making out at the cemetery in a freshly dug grave

Haha thanks Hollywood, there's a few in there i might just try this weekend with a new target i met the other night. Thanks for all the help bro, and keep up the great work!

hey thanks, i could totally use some of these ideas.
I took a girl to a cemetary the other night, not only is there alot of Kino because shes scared, but I guarantee she won't forget that.
Plus Im known for being in to that sort of stuff, late night haunted places, and girls seem to be intrigued by it, and its so mysterious to them.

wow first time I read that comment about the cemetery I thought it was a joke (well I still think the making out in a grave is, at least I hope so) but now that I think about it going somewhere "spooky" would make for a great date kinda like taking a girl to a scary movie in hopes that she jumps and grabs you because she's scared except its more real.

There is a lot of old abandoned barnyards, cornfields, and cemetery's where I live so I think I just got a whole new list of date locations.

Plus going to places you shouldn't be brings in that sense of sexy danger, and I could even tell her all the myths and town legends about these places to build tension. The next date with me will surely go unforgotten.

Thanks for the great ideas and post.

since this is about sticking points I'd like to ask you how to take the hb to your place after a sucessful date (thanks for the good ideas!!)... I mean how to make the f-close a natural part of the date??

Always have an excuse to go back to your place or a reason.

Learn a skill like playing guittar and ask her if she wants to hear you play

Maybe take her on a date where you will both get your hands dirty and then say lets go back to my place and wash up. <--- this one is good because most girls wont say no to washing up because it will make them appear to have poor personal hygiene and if she says no you can neg her on being dirty.

Ask if she wants to meet your dog.

any of these should work and you will find that once your back at your place you rarely actually do the activity that you came back to your house for.

thanks!! luckily I'm a very good guitar player but I plan to go to a cocktailbar with her cause it's a very cool place and they offer a happy hour... any more "reasons/excuses" for going home after that typical date? I think that watching a movie sounds quite obvious or rather gay... what do you think?

its a little obvious but if your in then your in, its not like she is going to turn you down because you gave an over rated excuse to go back to you place.

Umm,
Well what always works for me is sometime through out the date you give a reason to go back to your house. Like how you play a guitar like the the PU guy said. Or I always say a friend gave me a nice bottle of wine and we should try it, but remember to say she can't stay long because you gotta wake up early. This helps to ease her mind that you wont try anything. WINK WINK. Also My brothers a art major and I have a cool painting at my house. So I always say he just gave it to me, and she should check it out.lol
Just use whatever works for you in your situation. Always plan ahead thats the key to 80% first date lays for me.
Ohh and whatever you do once she's back you gotta go for it. Dont get all nervious and bitch out. Remember shes at you house for a reason also. She already has comfort with you.No need to over comfort or you will just be another friend. If your smooth on the date, and at the house you'll be fine 80% of the time.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

thank you guys... I didn't need a very convincing excuse and had a GREAT evening though

I really like the reality tv one... it seems like every girl I know is obsessed with that stupid shit, I'll have to give it a go.

Funny story about the cemetery comment.

When I was in 7th grade I had a buddy who lived next to a cemetery and he would have parties everyonce in a while. People would go make out at the cemetery during the parties. When it hit summer time people would just go there even if he wasnt having a party to h/u.

That comment just reminded me of that.

sweet

nice