I think I screwed up. So we went out for lunch, me and her, very sponstaniously.

So I start talking with her and I wanted to find out if she is indeed interested, so I use all these analogies till she finally gets what I'm saying, she told me using an analogie too, that she has "these walls" that I can't go across. I told her that nothing's impossible but still she gave me this look like "I don't think so". So indirectly but directly she said that she wouldn't cheat on him.

Here's what I don't get. She obvsiouly didn't give me any signs of being in the friend zone, she comes out with me alone with no problem, is confortable around me. And than this.

So, I'm thinking - ok, move on - but apparently, she's addicted because even after that she keeps starting conversations with me through sms, web and personally.

I'm thinking I did nothing wrong because if I moved for a k-close she would've said no because of the reaons she stated. I did all the routines, so at the moment I had nothing left and like you guys said I had to make a move which I did but through words - to make clearer what my intensions were.

But like I said she still comes talking to me, so should I just continue talking to her with no effort at all of picking her up and move on, or should I still try???

HELP

First off, why on earth did you bring up the subject when everyone explicitly adviseds to avoid it? (Maybe not in this topic, but everywhere else on the forum.)

Secondly, if you want her as a friend, by all means keep talking to her.

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Stupid mistake I know. I didn't bring the bf subject though, I was talking about in a flirtatious way that she should do what she wants to do, to which she said she had those walls.

I don't think I've been friend zoned yet though. I'm saying this because, although she keeps coming back to talk to me I don't make the mistake of talking about mundane things, I just keep creating sexual tension even though after what she said. For an example I was saying, how it's boring for her to predict the end of the "story" like that just because of the "rules" she imposed on herself. To which she said: "Who says that's the end of the story? Like you said, nothing's impossible"

So at this time I don't even know at what step I am or what should I do next. Any advice on a next step? So I can get this over with!

Thanks for the help Charlie0