You know what... I really feel for you how your feeling at the moment, I can just imagine and that feeling hurts, but you dont need my sympathy and nor am I giving it to you because that would make you weak and thats something your not.

I understand you liked her and you proberly still do even after this but she is not someone you want in your life... she'll cause more pain and hurt. I know these types of girls, We all do!

Now... move on.. drop her, you dont need her.. you never have. You can have any girl you choose why would you need her? In a way shes saved you a lot of time by doing that because now you dont need to go out of your way to find out what shes really like..

Your new journey begins and it's going to be a tough one.. but you can do it

and btw guruz, whilst I understand your objectives (if that truely is what you mean) the 'tough love' your giving people isn't helping its angering. He doesnt need tough love because hes moving on... people only need that when the keep running back

So dont go running back to her OR I WILL FIND YOU haha.

Totti

Fuck Ace, that sucks! What a bitch. I'm in the middle of a breakup. I can feel the pain too. It's like a snake bit me or something. It's like sunburn, or like being out in the cold without a jacket. It doesn't seem to want to go away.

But I'm not fighting it. I'm letting it pass through me.

Eventually my brain will tire of feeding me that emotion.

I'm gonna keep on truckin cause I know there's gonna be some very nice sights at the next station! I think if we really want to learn to play the game we got to be ready to deal with some of the pain.

Guru touched on some Eastern philosophy. I never read any of those books. But I can rationalize the idea that pain is a close cousin of joy. You can't have one without the other. It's just the flip side of that card.

And in life,,, hey man,, sooner or later you know that card is gonna be flipped.

Right on. Bad emotions are caused by resisting realities that you don't like. If there is a reality that you can't change, there is no point in resisting it.