Like TheFuckingitalian already said: Don't ask questions, don't ask for permissions

You want to change the day of your ''date''?

Me: Hey listen, i really wanted to see you today but something came up so i wont be able to make it. Sorry..?
Her: Its fine, im not in college anyway, haha :p

You: aha okay , so when do we meet then? or even better : how about ''friday''?

That's it!

Now I suggest you meeting her face to face, as if texting her again , may come across as needy!

Best of luck!

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okay now i know that i need to take control but i how can i meet her face to face now? iVE left the class so ive only got her number and never see her cuz shes hardly ever in. Also, why did she not reply? I can call her on the weekend and say it directly that i wanna take her out sometime or is there any other better alternative you can tell me?
I was thinking of the phonecall going along the lines off:
find out how she is and blah blah, make a joke, make her laugh and then say;
Listen bella, right now therea 3girls trying to help me to get you interested and making me apologize but im gonna be direct and so i was wndering if you wanna go out some time, if not im glad we met.

Any alternative?
Thanks
Influence

Don't call her, she's not going to answer

This shit will never work. You don't say anything about other girls etc, she's going to think "I can make decision with my own head, you jackass, who cares if other girls want us to hit it off?".

To be honest, at this point the only thing that might work is a freeze-out.

Go NoContact and hope to meet her again, that's your only chance.
Nothing you can text or say it's going to increase your chances, instead most likely the next text is going to kill your very last one...

Thanks for telling me straight up mann..but the thing is why is she not replying over one simple text which the other replier said was good. I dont wanna freeze out and HOPE to run into her again :/ thats not gonna happen cuz il be over her by then looool Il probably text her next week, just give her her space and start all over again and instead of text game, il lead it on to call game to meet up. I might as well give it a try and learn from my mistake rather than 'HOPE' to run into her the next couple of weeks.
Any alTERNATIVE or comments on my plan?

Thanks
Influence

Mann, i'm starting to think you've got oneitis... You're focusing all your attention on this one girl.
Game other girls, you'll keep your head cool and eventualy do much better with this one..

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im going uni soon so she wont be around for long but as id rather fuck up badd with this one and know what i did wrong rather then leave her but dont know what i did wrong leaving me prone to repeat my mistakes. I guess il just text her another day, its the first time she hasnt replied soo :/ if she doesnt reply then, then im off! lol thats the one thing im not doing and thats fighting for a girl.

Holy shit man, there is so much far-fetched shit in this thread that is so widely flung that you chaps are like orbiting around the moon while your common sense is left on earth.

Use basic conversational skills and don't bring in shit like "3 other girls want to assist" or "I should apologize because I might have said something in an insubstantial text that in my interpretation might unknowingly have evolved into a substantial issue in your mind and I recently became aware of this."

You guys are retarded. Write: "Hey Bella, wanna hang out tonight? Let's meet at Charlie's at 7. See you there. Xx."

If there's no reply, screw this chick and bang someone else. Or calculate how much the dinner would have cost you and put it in your hooker jar.

Jesus Christ man, grow the fuck up you guys. No matter how crafty or witty your text is, there's always a chance that a girl won't respond.

yea i just sent her; Hey bella, how are you?
and she replied apologizing for not replying cuz she didnt notice it andblah blah..
The answers normally lie in the simplest forms....fuck my logic, always take the long way around

Also, can you guys help me in how to transition our conversations from casual to escalation to build attraction. Any topics and questions i can talk about to build attraction. I already know cold reading but what else?

Thanks
Influence