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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 12:41 pm 
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So I came across this thread and thought how my game had improved over the last 2 years, but thinking about it my sticking points is resenting women.

I had a background of having women leave my life while I was younger therefore I became independent on myself. This sticking point however is some what of an advantage for me, because it helped me to not care so much about women, but there are times when i need to be vulnerable and find it hard to do so

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Do you have any tips for kino escalation? I can't seem to do it to save my life. I'm usually really good at opening, attracting, N-closing etc. Once I get to a day two, It's a little awkward and I feel like there is a two foot barrier between us. Obviously this makes it tough to k-close. Any suggestions?


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im messing up once in a while during my opening cuz im to afraid of the hb 9 and 10 but only when i have a lil to drink my game is on point. also i need to know how to get in tpouch with my inner self


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Im getting better at building attraction but im not too good at building comfort & keeping them interested long enough for day 2's

any advice?


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Failed with f-closing 2 times. Anyone has anything helpful on that?


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i just made this post, would love a bit of advice on it..

almost-over-aa-new-sticking-point-vt138602.html

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Failed with f-closing 2 times. Anyone has anything helpful on that?
Why did you fail?

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hey, i posted this today but i can't link yet, its a topic with the subject 'what to do next'. i would love some feedback


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My first sticking point? Number closing. I've never successfully done it outside a time in which it was really needed (study partners, etc).

I've successively worked around it (gone on dates without ever having asked for their number), but this is obviously quite difficult to pull off.

Second sticking point is the Kiss-Close.... because well, I've never kissed. :oops: This is really bad, because at my age girls kind of expect that you know how to.... well do anything.


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Hey guys, I need help..
1)Where do yu drop the neg.. Can it be used as a transition?
2)I have a problem staying in set coz i feel i need to leave asap coz i used an ftc. so my body is faced away from set most of sarge.
3)And I have so many stories, I just dont know how to link them together, coz theyr all off topic.. like me being at the gym, me writing a song, my female friends being at my house, me fighting a guy to protect a family member.. They dont connect and it would sound weird dropping random things into convo...
4)Im also not sure when to move the set.
BEFORE you reply, you can see, I have cool dhv stories, just I dont know how to string them together. I dont also want to cold read into each story... MPUA help please??


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i have a major sticking point i have a really hard time with, this is impossible. i need help please

im confident and attractive, i attract the hottest girls at the mall within 3 min because im very in state, i get them to make up stories to impress me and i qualify them, after qualification i shut the fuck up and dont even try at all i just stare at them and they try to maintain the conversation asking me questions and shit they're so into me so i set up a day 2 for some coffee etc. then i text them and they ignore me its like they're buying temperature is gone now and they dont give a shit period.

i feel like they like the entertainment and good emotions maybe there's a lack of investment on their part or lack of a genuine connection.

please help me seducers i feel like im so close to god damn dating life


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I'm 17 and practicing pickup for 1 year.
I have 2 major sticking points: (I tried to figure it out by myself for 6 months but failed)

*Constant flakes - I'm doing mostly direct daygame, being confident, good convos but getting like 90% flakes (doesn't answer on calls/texts, being cold and non-reactive)

* Losing girls - the girls I DO pulls, seems to lose attraction - examples:

1 - she approached my group, I saw her some days later at school, NC , texted alot and asked her multiple times to meet me - never happens but she keep text me once in a while (1 time she was drunk and wanted to meet but I wasn't home), the next few times I tried to meet again she refused.

2 - Facebook, NC, meet and KC, stayed in touch with her and asked her to meet every 2-3 days and got it in the first month, then I got flakes for 2 weeks and freezed her, she initiate and not offer a thing, 1 day later I asked to meet - she flaked, one week later SHE asked to meet and flake again. I cut it.

3 - open, really good game on that one on bus, met her 2 days later and makeout, she ignoring me since then.

Any thoughts doc?


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