OK, so I am 17 and I use to be really nervous around girls. But then I got rejected so much, that it stopped bothering me. I was able to gain confidence with women, even though deep inside I wasn't really that confident. Just last year I had sex with a few very attractive girls, and I also was dating a REALLY attractive 19 year old for 6 months. I shit you not, I use to get a lot of praise for it too, because I was just a average looking 16 year old. I had a little bit of acne, but not bad, but I was also a tad bit over weight, but not much. So everything was going great, until I ended up breaking up with that 19 year old last April. Over the summer, and the first few months of school I ended up putting on 35 POUNDS! I went from barley above average to pretty much fat/chunky. I don't have a huge stomach that protrudes out, but I have a very chunky face that I am super self conscience about.

Because of this I have lost all my self confidence, and I haven't been with an attractive girl since like July. Its driving me insane, I mean I am also trying to lose weight so I can gain that confidence back but I also want to be able to get girls at my current weight. All I can think about when I want to approach a girl is "oh, I'm to big now I can't get her". And this really sucks, especially after my success with woman a year ago.

This is my first post on this site, but I desperately need help. Thanks!

Seriously dood, quit fucking posting this. Your post has already been answered multiple times. Knock it off.

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