Ok, so I am so fed up with being ignored, avoided, rejected and flaked on by most women, so today I really tried my best.

I smiled a lot more and was able to talk to some women in a much more relaxed manner. I saw this super hot woman in a mini skirt and in that moment I knew she was the exact type of woman that turns me on and I needed to get her attention.

Being so tired of things not working out, I feel that I have nothing to lose. I used to also feel weird hitting on women in public while other people watch, but now I couldn't care less. So, I called this beautiful woman over to me in a dominant, but friendly way and she submissively came over to me. I told her right off the bat that I really like what she is wearing because it is sexy and she is really cute. She thanked me and after that I told her to go to a love hotel with me (I live in Japan). She told me she is busy (which sounded genuine) but she had no problem giving me her Line contact to chat later.

I told her we will talk later and told her to have a great night and she thanked me in real life and on Line when I mentioned something similar in a chat.

Ok, so here is where I always always fuck up...what exactly do I need to say to get this woman to agree to go out with me?

I know that there is no one magical way to do it, but what phrases or methods seem to have the best average for warding off flaking?

It felt great talking with her and she seemed turned on or at least mildly interested because I called out to her in a strong dominate voice and she seemed to speak to me in a soft, submissive voice. It was such a turn on, but I know I will feel like complete shit when she will most likely flake on me tomorrow night.

I want to propose to go to a love hotel with her and she already knows what I want because I mentioned going with her today, so I hope there are some people on here that know how to get a woman to agree to meet up for sex or at least making out via chatting on an app?

Can the experts on here please help me out with this using specific examples that have worked for them in the past?

Japanese culture seems so weird.

If you told anybody "come to love hotel" after 30 seconds in another country you could be taken to the police, I'm serious.

Anyway, you already told her what your plan was, don't change it.

There's nothing to say special rather than "place X, at time Y".

Don't ASK her, tell her.

She liked your dominant style, keep it.

Anyway I would avoid meeting directly at the love hotel, tell her instead a bar or whatever you creepy japs go to. Karaoke idk where do you go.

Don't drink, don't fuckin drink, don't get drunk, just a sip of something for company.

Don't compliment her on her body, don't say she's beautiful, overall don't be a fuckin loser chasing her. You already told her once you find her attractive.

Try to be funny other than dominant, also, be yourself in all of this. If you know the frame theory I could go deeper, but if you only "act" at some point she'll notice you're acting, so be tough, but yourself.

Enjoy.

I'm actually a Caucasian man living in weird Japan. Yes, Japan is also weird in that they are sexless nowadays. Nobody is really having sex anymore. I have also noticed when trying to meet women online here, it is a big waste of time, which is why I started to sarge women in the streets. It is also annoying because Japanese women tend to flake a lot more than most other women. I had a lot more positive results when I was a foreigner in China than I ever did here in Japan. Most people think Japan is more friendly to foreigners but I think China might actually be. Anyway, she went out drinking late last night, so she might still be sleeping. So far I have only said good morning and how are you feeling?

Exactly how you would write the time and place message to her?

Something like this: Outside the train station at 6pm be there.

Or

Meet me outside the train station at 6pm

I want to see you at the train station at 6pm

How do you message women stuff like this?

"So far I have only said good morning and how are you feeling? "

What a terrible message: it is boring.

Don't write to women if you don't have something to tell them.

I usually don't type things like this, but sometimes I feel like I am direct but women always say I move too fast. It is annoying because they move too slow.