Hey guys,

I've been meeting some great girls lately and hit it off really well with some. The problem however is that I only manage to have great flirts with girls with a boyfriend for some weird reason. I'm not entirely sure why, and that's the reason I'm posting this here. I've had this happen multiple times, and the weird thing is there is a serious direct correlation, most girls that have a boyfriend, I find really easy to flirt with, even make sexual jokes etc, while when the girl is 'available' I have a harder time calibrating (making sexual jokes) and hardly manage to have that 'click'.

This might be because I'm scared (unconsciously?) when making sexual jokes on a girl that's single while on a girl with a boyfriend it's kinda given nothing's gonna happen anyway. Another theory is that it's because I feel more attracted to those girls, not sure about these theories though.

Also, I've never actually done anything sexual with a girl who's got a boyfriend, obviously for ethical reasons. Is there any point is just meeting up though? (Most girls I'm pretty fucking sure of they're not lying about a boyfriend.)

Have any of you experienced this before? It'd be great if you share your experience!

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18 year old ~ Netherlands

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There are different reasons

1. Flirting is fun
2. They let their guards down because they have boyfriends, so they'll play along
3. They don't mind cheating
4. You may be giving them validation that they're not getting from their boyfriends

Probably a lot more reasons than I've listed, but the fact that you're flirting but your ethics stop you and she has a boyfriend creates a lot of tension.

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I've been in this situation a few times. Ethics don't really matter anymore when you're about to put that dick in the pussy. And here's the thing, women do cheat. And they love it, maybe because the satisfaction is higher due to the risk of getting caught. You should try your game with single women though, you'll be surprised that their responses will not be very far apart from the ones with bf. Good luck.

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-Richard
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You have to think positively about the situation!
You have to realize that

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All women who cheat have Boyfriends!

There's no pressure to make anything happen on either side. She isn't available to you, and she isn't considering you. It's called fun. You aren't getting any because you aren't an option. That makes them feel safe.