| Hey bromigos!
I've been in the game for some time with great success so far, been a lifechanger for sure!
However I've got a question for you guys, I'm not reallllly sure how to handle this case, need all the advice I can get, I want to see if I can solve this puzzle via my nerdy side, this is the shy nice girl case:
Met this girl online via a game (super random), and we started to talk, chat, but obviously I'm not the only guy doing so. Therefor I kept my answers short, funny, and busy.
The girl to guy ratio in this game is 1 - 100, atleast. So everyone basically knows her. She suddenly joined my clan (pretty high level) basically as a "mascot". She then added me on facebook. We created a SPAM grp, just for the members and obviously the guys are trying to get things going. Continously filled with spam and she is always writing on it, she loves the attention I think.
She was always asking for me to join TS / SPAM, but I say I cannot come, I'm the only guy she hadnt spoken to from the team at this time. I try to play things cool, by not caving in and be needy. Then she asked for my snap and it went back and forth, she said my snaps we''re fckin awesome and took screens alot of the time. Obviously some of her snaps are mass sent, I will come back to this. She moved out of the country, across the border to study. She asked when we we're going to meet her there, and I said that my busy schedule wouldnt fit a trip there at this time, and that maybe she would get a surprise visit later. Me and two other guys from the team secretly planned a trip and we went to surprise her. Surely we did. We met up and she was shy as fuck, but actually really cute.
One of the guys she had met before, but not me and the other guy. I went in, took the lead in the interaction, and basically made it all flowing. I noticed her stare at me in the corner of my eye alot of the time, and by proximity. She laughed all the time, and started to fiddle with her hair.
We met her from Friday night til Sunday evening, a short period of time. As we we're there it was impossible to get her isolated as we we're always in a grp. During saturday evening I kinda noticed a little shift. She always sat next to this other guy and always told him to get up closer when he sat far away. I know those two have chatted alot via text and probably SPAM as well ( he is 7 yrs older)... He was more quiet aswell, being that he was from another country and didnt speak our language. We ofcourse spoke english to include him, but the case being, it kinda looked like she was drawn to him before our departure was closing. And I have 0 idea why, maybe because they have spoken so much together online? I initiated kino, naturally, and she after then startet to initiate it aswell alot of the time. I have always been a natural and do not look like a gamer at all, I kept the conversations light and funny all the time with not any kind of pressure (not much negging etc) being that she was super shy and quirky with probably low self esteem. She always sent this other guy message via SPAM asking what time we should meet up etc. I know I have higher value, and being busy in life and this girl is kinda my opposite, but theres just something there I want to explore. Shes probably a virgin aswell. Shes a fond of sitting home watching series, playing games and being online in general. Kinda isolates herself from the rest of the social circle in her school sometimes. She basically lifes her life online, texting in SPAM especially with this one guy who is quiet and kinda boring.
So after out meetup I left the SPAM grp, said it was to much spam for my phone to handle. She said our meet was the biggest surprise of her life, and she didnt want to go away that sunday.
I just want to know how I can escalate the attraction with a shy girl and different myself from all the other nolifers continously texting her. We planned a next meet, but I said I couldnt go, because I'm going to a hike in Australia with some friends to hunt & tame some wild animals.
Should I ignore her for a few weeks? Maybe my presence was kinda overwhelming for her, I am not sure.
Any advice on how to handle this further? Build extreme comfort via texting and turning myself to the nice guy?
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