I think my day game conversation is a sticking point. I don't run out of things to say anymore since I've done 100s of cold approaches now so random things just seem to pop into my head. However, I seem to follow a pattern that maybe isn't giving me the optimum results. My conversations normally go as follows. I've done it so many times it's just automatic:

- Open: "Hey, you're cute, who are you? My name is ...." or "Hey, you're cute, I like your style [mention something specific about their clothing/piercings/tattoos/accessories etc]."

- Ask what they are up to right now and try to gauge whether to aim for a insta date or number close. Follow up on what they are doing eg. if they are shopping ask who they are shopping for or what they are looking to buy.

- When conversation runs dry I try to guess what they do for a living based on how they look/if they have an accent I try to guess their nationality. I also try to guess aspects of their personality based on how they come across i.e. you seem like a responsible girl but also a bit edgy/a rebel.

- Try to qualify: "you seem like the adventurous type.", "can you cook?", "what do you do for fun"

- Go for an insta date: "I'm going to costa for a coffee, join me/keep me company"

- If an insta date is off the cards I'd say "I'd love to have coffee with you some time", I'll try and set up a specific time and date on the spot and show them my phone for them to type their number in.

Do you guys have any tips on how to improve?

Not saying it works or doesn't, but it really helped for me, to be normal and blank your mind entirely. I find it easier to get into an organic authentic conversation that way

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Yeah, I try to do this as it's more fun for me instead of repeating the same stuff to every girl. However, after 5 to 10 minutes of conversation I start thinking ok I need to try to move them for an insta date or I need qualify them so that they don't flake on me so the conversations becomes more scripted and a bit boring.