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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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everbetter
 Post subject: building rapport
PostPosted: Sat Oct 17, 2015 9:41 pm 
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Hi everyone!

I know how to banter and joke around with a girl. I have a problem transitioning from the 'banter' phase to the 'building rapport' phase.

Whenever I try to build rapport, it sounds like i am interviewing the girl, which is exactly what I have been asked to avoid.

This has become so bad that I have plenty of girls laughing at what I say and then going quiet because I am not engaging them in any meaningful way.

Any ideas on how to break this pattern?
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oceanx
 Post subject: Re: building rapport
PostPosted: Sun Oct 18, 2015 1:02 am 
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Stop thinking of it as linear and start thinking of the process as an ocean. Stop thinking in terms of phases and start thinking holistically. TBQH I don't even know what "rapport phase" means. In a solid interaction I fall in to deep rapport almost immediately with a girl I just met.
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Dragula
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 18, 2015 9:19 am 
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How would you go from being sarcastic to not sarcastic?

Just be normal and not be sarcastic? Just like...bantering and then deciding not to banter and just be normal

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everbetter
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 18, 2015 1:28 pm 
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Stop thinking of it as linear and start thinking of the process as an ocean. Stop thinking in terms of phases and start thinking holistically. TBQH I don't even know what "rapport phase" means. In a solid interaction I fall in to deep rapport almost immediately with a girl I just met.
Easy to say the word holistic. Can you please also elaborate?
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everbetter
 Post subject: Re: building rapport
PostPosted: Sun Oct 18, 2015 1:29 pm 
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@Dragula

Thanks man :-) Will try what you said (step function)!
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