I need advice and I am sure if you create a program just for this you could possibly increase your sales dramatically. I am talking about getting the woman who broke up with you back.

As you know breaks up are difficult and people after a break up react irrationally and are willing to spend money to get their others back. This is why I think You could profit on writing about this subject. Below is my story & I hope you can help.

I was dating a girl for 3.5 years I picked her up with my cocky funny attitude but little by little I started slipping back into my nice guy role.

Towards then end I was treating her like a queen bringing her favorite bottle of wine, grabbing little gifts, taking her to nice dinners, we even had tickets scheduled to travel to Chicago and Portland. I know what I did wrong she lost the attraction.

Several weeks before the break up she had just came back from a life changing group trip from Israel she was acting differently she was spending less time with me and more with her friends from the trip and when we spent time together she was distant, and I told her that she hadn't been the same since she came back. I told her that we use to have so much fun together and she agreed. I explained if we she didn't change we might have to separate. She apologized and said she would try and get better.

The thing was I believe I made things worse she said she didnt know how to react around me. She said she was loosing sleep and I didn't know what I should do . I was trying even harder to show her I care trying to schedule fun dates, to go dinners and be extra nice, but when I stopped by to see her after work last Friday she said that "I was so sweat and so nice and she doesn't know how to reciprocate and that we should end things". Of course she still wants to be friend which she knows will never happen. Even as she was breaking up with me I still kept my composure even though there was tears in her eyes I told her that I care for her and support her and if that what will make her happy I support her decision.

She knows that when I split with someone I sever ties which is not a good thing, because I want her to wonder why I haven't been calling or texting, but before I walked out of her place we talked about the trips we had planned to at the time (I thought I couldn't change them which I found later I could), and her stuff she have left at my place. She said she would text me about her stuff next week which she did on Tuesday, to which I have't responded which she knows is out of my character as I am in sales and I am incredibly responsive.

I don't want her to feel like that her splitting up with me has hurt me so bad that I couldn't respond. I was thinking of either responding several days later or letting her text me one more time and respond a few hours later. I also don't want her to feel that I am bitter about the break u and that I am going to hold her stuff hostage. Thoughts?

When the time comes to grab her stuff I am thinking of showing up a few minutes late dressed well throwing back on the cocky attitude letting her in, talking to her and getting the conversation to a peak, and then leaving and tell her i have to meet with someone and for her to lock up. I wouldn't say I am going on a date but let her know I am meeting with someone. I would let her go grab her stuff and some of the stuff is in my draws and having a box of condoms with a few missing. I am not sure this will make her want me more, but she has to know that I am desirable, and that I am moving on and that the break up didn't phase me. I also don't want her to feel like she meant nothing to me and that this would all happened in the short span of a 7 days.

I need your advice on how to act around her should I give her a hug like a friend, how do I build attraction when the attraction is lost. After our meeting I am going cold turkey until she text me several more times or until I accidentally text her something for someone else or just a pocket gibberish text. Then after a few delayed text schedule a meet at a dive bar on an off night monday or wednesday which will be difficult as she works early in the AM build a rapport then take her back and make her hit the high notes a few times before letting her go and do that a couple of times before she realizes that she misses me and wants me back. Then I was thinking of asking for a few days to think about it. Then taking her back a week later.

Please advise let me know your thoughts on my plan and if you could let me know a better angle?

Bro this is against sticking point posting rules. Get over this girl and find new girls!

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The best negotiating position is to be able to walk away and mean it. Move on, don't look back. If she contacts you then great, but don't contact her. She changed the terms of the relationship and you're not happy with that.

Walk and don't look back! You'll either get her back or you'll meet someone better. Take up new hobbies to take your mind off her - get new girls, work out, improve your style, learn new shit.

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