[quote="PatrickAnanda"]In order to speak of depth, you must first have depth.

Just looking at your posts, it's safe to assume you arent quite there yet, and having deeper conversations is just a method or tactic for you. See:

[i]"I just approach girls I like less frequently. Girls I like would be anywhere in the range of (9-10)" [/i]

Why don't you speak to the women you want? Also, who are these '9-10's you speak of, other than a means to enhance your own ego?

[i]"But rather I never get to use my really good seduction on them. Almost like it is hard for me to transition to that type of conversation."[/i]

Use your seduction? You either are seductive or you arent, it isnt something you use, it's something you are.

[i]"Thanks for the help. I never thought of using transitional phrases because I usually just let the convo flow. Are you saying I should control the convo more?"[/i]

Seduction is a dance, a flow. How can you control a flow?

I know that right now, in your mind, you are violently opposing this, thinking "who is that asshole to call me out?" And I probably deserve it, but I assure you, you need to hear it.

The fact is that if you truly want to have deeper conversations with someone, really connect with someone almost spiritually, you have to make the conscious decision to do so.

That's the way it happened for me anyway. I realized life is too short to have superficial conversations, and I wouldn't put up with it. So, I opened myself up, and every time I spoke to a woman, I asked about her passions, her dreams, her hopes and her fears. Women open up to me the way they do because I first open myself up - I dont try to control anything, I dont try to impose myself on anyone. I'm completely free, open and sincere, but solid, firm, masculine and strong.

"love is three quarters curiosity" - Casanova.

I have deep spiritual conversations in clubs. I have deep spiritual conversations at beach parties. I have deep spiritual conversations on subways, buses, and on my way to the gym. It doesnt matter to me.

Sincerity is what will get you the results you're looking for.
Everything else is just a tactic, tainted and see-through.

To your success,
Mack[/quote]
Thanks for this, and I'm not mad at all. It's actually really good criticism to learn from. I started this post a while ago and since taking a break (studying, sarging) I have learned to embody game more as a lifestyle rather than some trick I throw out from time to time. Again, thanks for the criticism I really appreciate it, and all the the responses from the other guys.

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Thanks Old Sport...