I've been noticing that I am strongly attracted to girls who are wrong for me and that I actually dislike girls who are my type for a long term relationship.

Case in point, I've met a couple of MILFs in the past few weeks, both of whom have degrees in criminology and major issues with scary abusive people owing them money and causing them bodily harm, and frankly, I can barely resist. I spent several hours yesterday just thinking about one of them and was seriously thinking about asking her if she'd like to take a trip to Vegas. She considers this hilarious, and I know that right now I am completely whipped. We had a really hot date, but I haven't even kissed this girl even though we both really wanted to f*ck, and we are definitely going out again. I am like incredibly infatuated. I was seriously thinking about moving several hours away for the other one, and I pretty much have it out of my system now with her. But frankly, I really just like how they make me feel, and getting into a relationship with either is probably a bad idea.

I met this other chick recently who I know is probably a very good match for me, and she thinks I am probably a good match for her too, but TBH, the chemistry is just awful; we actually kinda dislike each other. We have agreed to go on another date in like a week and a half simply because we both agree that there is potential if we can like each other, but I'm not really sure how to make that happen.... I have run into this problem in the past several times also.

How do you get the right feelings into a situation where the girl is right for you, and how do you avoid those feelings in a situation where she clearly isn't?

You have the wrong lifestyle, you will not attract the right women. You've conditioned yourself into disliking what is good for you (and others), and loving everything else.

So, I guess you just have to slow down and change your lifestyle now. Obviously if you're used to sleeping around, you will not be able to settle down with the right type of girl. The right type of girl doesn't talk like you.

If you met a girl who spoke about several DILFs she was with, and then a few other guys that she likes but isn't sure are good for a relationship...honestly what would you think of that girl?

I get the infatuation, it's easy in this game to even get infatuated after an interaction, let alone after sexing a woman. That's where discipline comes into play. Find out what you like in a woman and go after that.

I agree with oceanx in that, what he suggested is a great way to trick your mind intoakimg you behave more sexually. Have you tried what he proposed ? Just pretend she is someone you've already had a sexual relationship with.

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