For the past few years, my game has gotten pretty tight. Not to the level of the MPUA's, but enough to where I am comfortable approaching women in almost any situation with a pretty high success rate. However, there is only so long for me personally, I want to keep meeting women for meaningless sex. I have had my fun, but now it is time for something more. And this is where my problem arises. Anytime I find a girl that I could see myself settling down with, I find a way to mess it up!!!

A couple of recent examples spring to mind. HB 8 was 22. K-closed on First Date. Second Date same again, but we also fooled around in the hot tub. No F-close, but she did want to touch "it" (I am definitely not small size wise, so let her eventually have her way). After that Second Date, never saw her again. I probably sent a few too many texts and came across as needy.

To get over this girl, did the usual bang a couple of different HB's of varying levels.

Then two weeks ago, met another HB9, this time on tinder. Within an hour of matching up, we were lying on the beach together hanging out. I could tell right away she was digging me, as I am in good shape, with longer hair and generally look after myself as all men should. She was the first to escalate kino. It wasn't long until I was straddling her back giving her a massage and then k-closed. Spent the rest of the night with her, went to dinner and then f-closed. We hung out a couple more times before she left town. Since then, texting and talking on the phone every night. Highly unusual, but I feel the normal rules don't apply once we've slept together. I returned to Europe a week later and been texting as normal until a couple of days ago, where I sent a video message rather than a voice message, as she had asked for. She never responded and in my neediness/oneitis state of mind, I sent another couple of texts. Is this sort of situation recoverable? As normally, I wouldn't care, as I could just meet another girl anytime, anyplace.

There is definitely a pattern to my behaviour when dating a HB8 or higher. My game is solid enough to attract, number close, date multiple times, etc. But when looking for something more, I become an AFC. When I don't care, I have no issues. Has anyone else managed to successfully transition, or have any solid advice on this subject?