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Yo!
The main sticking point I am hoping to conquer is eye contact. Now what I want to know from you guys is have any on you done any eye contact challenges/ tasks to speed up your development in this area?
I Have realized I struggle with eye contact with everyone but especially attractive girls and powerful guys and this needs to improve. I live very near a busy city centre and over the last week I have been setting myself the task of trying to hold eye contact with 20 people each time. It has been relatively successful but I would like to know if anyone on hear has set themselves specific challenges to optimize eye contact ability quickly?
If anyone has any tough or quirky challenges ( I have no qualms at laughing at my self if my game improves) please share.
Cheers, Sal
The more you do it the easier it gets. I can't think of any challenges or anything specific but if you are near a busy city centre then I would suggest going for walks in that area where there are a good amount of people. Keep your head up, have a smile, and maintain eye contact with people as you walk by both men and women.
One thing I will tell you about eye contact is it is physically impossible to look at someone in both eyes. Your two eyes can only have one focal point. So pick an eye to look at either the left or the right it doesn't matter and from any kind of distance besides kissing distance it is hard to tell that is what you are doing. The reason I suggest this is because when you try to look at both persons eyes your eyes will shift back and forth which can be negative body language to some.
While you are out you might as well make a few approaches using your new skill even if it is to ask for directions to the nearest Starbucks, ask about restaurants nearby, for the time, or even a pickup approach while just focusing on having good eye contact.
CHAT