Hey,

Most of girls I meet, they say this: we accept love but we can't have a boy friend, I ask why? they say that a boy friend will never marry us, they only play and go. we don't want to be misused.

- They obviously believe that there should be a definite end to their relationships or they better to not enter it at all. WTH, since when ladies are THAT logical??

- They believe that sex, brings all the sensations and feelings inside the relationship, eventually the girl will feel related, she don't want to feel related ^_^.

* they say this as an excuse to me and I don't know how to overcome it ^_^

I experience this with a lot of girls, how should I overcome it? what am I doing wrong??

Girls could be telling you 2 things with lines like this:

1) They just want sex and don't want a commitment.

2) (more likely in your case) If you're consistently hearing this from everyone then I think you're going for a certain type of girl. The kind of girl who's damaged or has been hurt or cheated on, and who is a little jaded and man-hating as a result... You're coming off as too much of a nice guy if this is what you're getting, cause you know what? Every one of these girls is going to feed you a line like this and then run off and fuck some asshole in the parking lot who slaps her ass and treats her like shit. How to overcome it? Don't be a nice guy.

Thank you my friend for the answer. I'm more of case #2. I am, unfortunately, too much of a nice guy... too kind with girls, more than their real worth ...
... I need to add some ignorance and not-easily-giving to my behavior. Or be kind as much as they worth.



=> Cruelty is part of charm and attraction.