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Hey folks,
i am introducing here a little bit myself. And i want honest answers. I am in the united states now for about 6 months and stay for another 6 months . I am 24 years old and live with a family here in the states. I am from Germany and for work here. I got phone numbers sometimes in the mall, in bars, sometimes at a gym. My game in this could be better off course, but i get numbers every week. I try to get on a date with a girl to meet in a bar and try at the second date or sometimes first date to go to her place... I had success with this two times, because its a little bit difficult when the family is here " to say come over we eat something and watch a movie..." but anyway... In the last weeks i got phone numbers from really hot girls and text them but in the last weeks they didnt text back, or one or two messages and then nothing... and not interested, i am kind of in a slump and need a honest advice and I dont know what i do wrong. Maybe it is the culture, but anyway I would be happy to here some good advices for me .
First of all congrats on getting those numbers dude! why would you bring the girl to the bar on the first date?

never ever bring a girl to a bar or a club on a first date, even in cinemas! (it's so fucking loud and you can't escalate well

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You know the first date is the most important thing of it all, it's all about getting to know each other! sharing your passions, desires and your interest in life. Always be calm and relax and most of all is dress at your best

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Take your date somewhere different that most guys don't take them and were both of you can do some fun activities like the list of examples that i posted below.
1. walk in the park
2.bowling
3. ice skating or ski
4. archery
5. shooting range
6. horse back riding
7. etc
My best advice for you is talk to alot of women, Don't complicate things sometimes it's not you, sometimes it's them. maybe they're busy or doing something or maybe not really interested in you, just move on and find a new girl to game. don't wait for their text or call do what you want to do anyways.
Wish you the best of luck!
-TheNaturalPlayboy