Texting Girls – The 10 Message Rule

When texting, always try to set up a date, and never use more than 10 messages.

A LOT of guys don’t have a clue about how to text girls if they want to get laid. I was like this too. I didn’t have a clue. These were some of my thoughts back when I was younger:

How do I know when she is attracted enough?
How do I ask her to hang out via sms?
When is too soon or too late to ask her out?
What should I text her?
Will I ruin the moment if I am too forward?
LOL! I don’t even dare to be forward.
And so on…
When I was 17, after realizing that girls actually LIKE sex, and after some really good advice from REAL LIFE experienced players, I made up this 10-message-rule. It just came to my mind out of the blue. And it was seriously awesome. I swear every time a girl hit me up on facebook chat or text, the first thing that came to my mind was “the 10 message rule”!!!!

It was just about this period of my life (see my diary from 2010) where my results with women skyrocketed. This texting rule definitely played its part.

Important Mindset: She wants the cock

What I first want you to understand is that when a girl texts you, she does this for a reason. Everyone has a motivation for their actions. And when a girl texts you “hey” or “whats up” or “my mom is stupid” she has decided to do this for a reason. If you have done your best to look your best, work out and act masculine, she has categorized you as a sexual option. Why do you think she texts a guy she considers a sexual option? Because she is horny and interested in getting physical. If she wanted to small talk she would have texted the weak hipster guy she considers “emotional tampon”.

One thing is for sure. She has TONS of guys in her phone. She could have texted TONS of other guys.

Therefore, a good rule of thumb: When a girl texts YOU, it means she wants the dick. When girls text you, see it as a lead (sales term for interested customer). Whenever your little facebook chat pops up with a new message from a girl, you should basically think “YES, SHE WANTS TO FUCK, GAME OVER, NOW I ONLY NEED TO SET UP A DATE AND SEAL THE DEAL”

When a girl texts you, she wants to fuck you.

Unless you are:

A weak hipster
Her FRIEND
Really good at math, and your classmate’s text is about a math equation.
The 10 Message Rule

What should you do when a girl wants the dick? I don’t think I even need to tell you.

Of course you should set up a date. And do is as FAST as possible, because as you might know, girl’s moods change a lot. You have to strike while the iron is hot.

One little trick has helped me A LOT to get dates with girls and helped me with my texting in general. I simply made a rule to myself, that whenever I texted girls, or whenever girls texted me, I HAD to ask her to hang out, and I could only use a maximum of TEN MESSAGES. Creative as I am, I called this the “10 message rule”. I know, Harvard degree right here.

Now I’m usually not a big fan of making a lot of “rules”. I recommend you just to go with the flow. But until you have had success with a lot of women, it is a good idea to have some guidelines that will guide you in the right direction. This is what the 10-message rule is for.

It’s very simple. Whenever you text a girl, or she texts you, you have to ask her to hang out. And you can only use up to 10 messages in the conversation. So you have to start the conversation, set up a date, agree on a day and time and end the conversation – in maximum 10 messages.

Hello all!

I have been gaming for 4 months now and the development have been really nice. Lately however it has been down fall so I'v decided to keep a short break (My inner game is just breaking down SPAM.)

However I need your advice for my text game. It happens for me all the time.

It doesn't matter how I get the girls interested, tinder or clubs, the girls always seem to flake. For past 2 months I have got maybe 50 numbers and out of those girls maybe 10 have been really interested at the beginning (Mostly the girls from the clubs and bars). I try to settle a meeting after few days of texting and the girls have always something other to do/ other excuse. After that i keep short break not to reward them and continue normally.. And most of times they continue and the conversation flows really well. This might continue for 3 weeks and they seem to lose the interest and at some point I just decide to stop the chatting.

I use small push-pulls and subtle negs but mostly regular convo. My texts are usually shorter than theirs. Once in a while I use smileys. When I pick up a girl from the club I try to establish enough rapport for the future and they always seem to like me and they have many times asked my number first. I thought it could be the attraction, but I have been pulling a few ONS's successfully lately since I'm frustrated bc my texting just doesn't work as it should. When it comes to texting they seem to lose their interest to meet me again, but for some reason they still continue texting me.

Thank you.