Hey guys this is my first post on this forum, I've been going out cold approaching for a little over 2 years, really like the stuff the guys at RSD put out, have watched a lot of their material and released i did a lot of those things naturally, I'm extremely unstifled i have no problem opening, self amusing, and hooking girls, they love me at first, i'm very fun, perhaps i make to many jokes, I am usually physical from the open, and comment that shes "cute" or sexy, i've started to incorporate small pushes and pulls into my game more. But basically what ends up happening is the girl, usually any girl i interact with will love me for a few hours, but i just dont connect with them deeply enough for them to give a fuck after im gone

A perfect example is this girl the other night, we had a college dance this is our first weekend here. I was killing it with my friends we made the dance fun, and I along with my friends basically had all the girls around us the entire night. I wasn't paying any particular attention to this one girl, well call her sally until later in the night when she caught my attention by showing of her more adventurous side with a crazy dance move. I literally had 6 girls surrounding me and they were all loving me i was pushing one off grabbing another one and grinder with her and even putting the girls that were circulating around me onto other guys. ( i dont think im super cool for gringing with these girls im just trying to set up this situation)

So later in that night we decided to walk up this very long hill to where this large area is at our campus, once again me and my freinds led this large group from the dance up the hill. I didnt talk to sally untill i saw her sitting alone while we were all hanging out on the top of the hill.

She looked like she was crying and thats why i approached her at first but she wasnt, we immediately got into a pretty vulnerable topic which was her parents splitting up, we talked and got close, she was like sitting on this ledge and she like rapped her legs around me sort of and i hugged her while she talked, and then i told her about my parents being split up and everything was going great. ( she actually stayed up on top of the hill with me and the rest of the group when her friends went back down).

Later that night we ended up in one of my friends dorm room along with 2 girls and another guy but we were sitting on our own bed. We were holding hand and talking about how much we both loved adventure time, i didn't kiss her or anything only because her friends were right there next to us and i thought, fuck it ill see her tomorrow.

We texted a little bit i asked her where she was at one point and said i wanted to hang out because i had some time to kill before i had anything to do, she told me she was going to target on the shuttle with everyone else, and then when she got back to campus she said she was going to the dining hall to get something to eat and i told her i went to chipolte with my friends, and then she didnt reply, a few hours later i saw her at a carnival thing we were having that night.

So anyway i thought we actually made at least some sort of at least MINOR connection, but the next day we had another school dance and she would even dance with me at all, all her freinds were grinding but she refused to dance with me, it pissed me off actually because this has been a major sticking point, she was totally into me, i physically escalated and made my intentions clear, I feel like i was man to woman not freind to freind with her, although i used to be very friend to friend in the past, and i just dont know what is going on its really bugging me out.

What am i not doing?
Am i to friend to friend?
I make many wierd jokes, but thats how i always am, do i need to be more boring like most other guys that i meet, are girls put off by my high energy?

also some girls think that im gay, this could be because i make a lot of like wierd gay sexual referances, which is just whats funny to me.

i know my grammer is terrible, please help me though