Ok guys, I had this girl at my place some days ago. We are friends since last year (we take the bus together almost every day).
So, she started breaking the touch barrier once she was in my bedroom and after talking and escalating a bit I got to the point I was giving her a massage. At a certain point i undid her bras so that I could do my job better and she didn't react to that. You'd say now: "what are you waiting for man? Fuck her!". I thought the same, but when I came closer to her she pushed me away. So I was like "ok, two steps forward, one step back" and I tried to do so, but every time I tried to get closer she'd push me away. It ended that she had to leave and we didn't have sex.
This didn't happen only with her. It's something that apparently is my sticking point...


What should I do? Any advice?

wish I could help u man....I just ran into this same type of situation today on a date.....I even had this girl in my freaking bed....she was saying.....wait lets slow down, I just met you, etc. I tried the same thing that u tried and it wasnt happening. sucks. anyone with advice real appreciated.

maybe I could have built better comfort but Im not sure. Last week I went on a date with a girl and within an hour we were banging. I think some girls are just more down to f***.

Maybe I should have built more comfort and possibly....qualification.....she was attracted b/c we were making out but probably needed deeper level of comfort....prob some qual b/c shes a bartender and gets hit on all the time...