My close friend sees the girl I'm interested in every day on the train but she doenst know who he is. My plan was to have him indirectly introduce himself but not talk about me. He would get close to her enough for her to trust him. Then he would open up how he knows who I am, and DHV me and show he respects me. And then he would frame an "us" frame on the girl to make her subconsciously aware of me and her whilst then framing that she is chasing me and what she can do to get me back. But I like her a lot and this is as far as I'm willing to go before I move on. It can also clarify whether she is at all interested because she sends mixed signals even now.

I'm wondering if this is the best way for my wing to operate. Are there any other better methods? Maybe to just DHV or just set one frame - please explain! I want her back chasing me and for her to know my value so she realises that actually she does like me and considers me a real option again. Thank you

The one that opens the girl, owns the game and gets the girl. That means the girl will like your friend, instead of liking you. When he introduces you to her, you will be 'someone he (your friend) knows'.

Even when it will be clear that your friend is introducing you to the girl, you will not get the girl. Why?? Very simple, the girl knows that you are not self-confident enough to approach her by yourself. And you have a friend to do the 'hard work' for you.

My advice: if you like the girl, just approach the girl yourself. You control the frame, and only you can influence the outcome of the game.