I find that I'm stuck to a rigid pattern of going down the checklist of openers, IOIs, and routines even if a girl is further along than I am. My strongest card is my intelligence. I consider myself very well spoken and have developed a lot of really intelligent mid-game routines. But for the "party girls" that just want to go out and have sex... I end up boring with comfort building. Note that this isn't me falling for fools mate...Specific example: last night I met up with with a friend of mine and her friend who is a solid 9. I saw some of her texts before hand that read something along the lines of "I just need dick." We all met up and went to a club. Loud...high energy. My friend was pushing me to escalate kino, but I felt like I needed to justify it with comfort building etc. I don't really have a strong bold sexual energy. I just feel like I can jump right into mid game when I myself haven't gone through the opening game.

Any lines, attitudes, advice for me to gain a powerful initial sexual energy?

You don't have to fall for fool's mate, you can still run your game even if the hb is thirsty.
But did you try to let her work for you after DHV and negs?

Remember that you are the prize, and if you notice a few IOI's and she seeking for attention you can isolate and escalate kino.
And if you k-close don't use your tongue, make her want more.
I don't know if that's what you meant but I hope this helps!

Goodluck,

Duece

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You said it, loud club, which means you don't even have to isolate or talk.
All you had to do was hold out your hand to her, spin her, dance a bit then escalate to dirty dancing.
All other things follow, without any talking.

Girls like her want more playfulness, and less of the serious emotional stuff.

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Being able to calibrate like this requires nothing but practice, and consciously deciding to temporarly "switch off" the intelligent guy in side us who wants to build rapport. There will always be some occassions when women want to skip all of that. Even with women who typically need much more comfort-building. Be ready for it, but don't beat yourself up if it's not coming naturally to you.

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