The problem is i dont know how to take the conversation to the next level after i kissed the girl. I feel weird when i go back to normal convo after kissing a girl. what topics and direction do you guys take talk about?

if I kiss, I will usually make out for a while. Then sure, you can talk with her normally.
It's not a big deal that you just kissed. It happens to you all the time, I am sure. Because you're alpha. So you're a very sexual being who is used to kissing women, and having sex with them.
It's not a big deal. Smile at it, and talk to her normally. She is still the same human being she was before. And so are you.

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Try to get her to leave with you to a sex location....

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Be careful with this. Last year, I tended to push really hard for this, and if you miscalibrate at this point, ASD go up really really fast, and you blow yourself
If you don't see compliance, plant the seed, be cool, but don't push hard. If you play your game properly, there will be another date, and it will be sooooo much easier to get that kind of compliance.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

She'll run a mile if you try that you fucking loser. Is that all you can think about? Get into her knickers as quick as you can? Just because she kisses you doesn't mean she wants sex with you right there and then. I swear you guys on here act like it's some kind of race. Girls know what you're up to and deep down they're sick to death of how socially inept you are. And what's with all this alpha crap? Most girls don't want to be bullied and controlled into doing something they don't want so get real.

Just act normal. Once you kiss a girl you don't just back away and talk, you hook up for a while. She might want a long hookup, which usually means you can feel her up and push the boundaries a bit. If she pulls away after a few minutes just continue flirting, but don't make yourself look stupid trying to get her to hook up with you again.

Hopefully your kiss should be full of emotion. You should be turned on. She should be turned on. I would say your aim from a kiss is for BOTH of you to be deeply involved in the moment, it is then that you can use this involvement to your advantage.

You should always end the kiss (which is often hard when you're so involved) and when you do try to keep hold of the emotions you just experienced, look deep into her eyes and communicate your state of mind "that was amazing but we need to stop now" (not verbally but mentally). Look at her like you understand the way you just made her feel (you do cos you just felt it!). Look at her like you are the reason the she felt that way (you are the reason she just felt that way!).

You can either do this playfully or lets say, from a more involved viewpoint.

Then as you both understand what just happened backpedal to normal convo (your normal game encompassing complete at ease with what just happened) wait for a bit then escalate again.

This shows that even though you can fully indulge with these emotion when appropriate you also have the ability and control to resist them. Essentially you are in control of yourself and her.

You're going for "I could give you the most amazing experience ever but you can't have it yet".

Thus:

1. Kiss with all your heart.
2. You pull out.
3. Longing look of acknowledgment.
4. Backpedal to normal game.
5. Repeat, escalate or bounce.

You have to be comfortable experiencing the full extent of all these emotions. The real value lies in showing you can experience them to their full extent and be un-affected by them.

Do NOT freak out by the feelings you experience with a kiss. THAT IS WHAT A KISS IS DESIGNED FOR. A kiss is a natural test, so use it that way and listen to the results.

How much does this girl move me with a kiss?

Based on that kiss is she worth sleeping with?

Girls usually do this so this so if u do as well they will totally get it.

The more normal you act after a kiss, the more comfortable she'll get with you.
Don't make a big deal out of it. While kissing, try to escalate with your hands and move to another place.
By place I mean apartment.

That's all