Hi,

I know that my thread's title may sound very funny at first, but believe it or not, not going out to meet women in places like bars and clubs has actually been my main sticking point for years.

By the way, I cannot say that I never tried to go out to meet hot women on Friday and Saturday nights because I did go out many times in the past.

The point that I'd like to make here is actually my search for the truth on whether I am really a 40 year old social retard needing some expert PUA tips on how to get myself excited about starting to go out again (after years of not going out), or I am just an ordinary guy who simply doesn't enjoy cold approaching random women anywhere in public (e.g. on the street, at bars or clubs).

Since I am now at the turning point in my life where I need to decide whether I want to be a pick-up artist or a porn star, I'd like to ask you if you could share any concrete tips on how I could easily get myself in the mode of happily going out again in order to see if I've got any chances of becoming a successful pick-up artist or not.

If I am not destined to become a pick-up artist because of not enjoying the whole PUA stuff, then I am ready to explore the possibility of having sex with women in porn videos, instead.

To give you a clue on what kind of tips I am expecting from you, I'd like to share with you an example on how Richard Branson (the famous billionaire entrepreneur) helped his friend to get rid of his phobia of water when trying to learn how to swim.

The way Richard helped him was by simply suggesting that he first makes himself comfortable diving his face into the water inside his bathroom's bath and then keep it under the water for a few seconds (by gradually extending the time-length for his face and eventually his whole head to stay under the water).

So, I was simply wondering if you could give me some practical action tips that I could use when going out next time that would serve me as a good or smooth transition bridge for taking me from my current situation of not going out to meet women at all to the situation of being excited and happy to go out again.

In advance thank you very much.

Bruno

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