Folk I´m being frozen out this week by the last girl I used to go out before expending 1 year abroad. She is a HB 8, and quite smart (major turn on for me about her), still last time we went out things were a bit messed up cause I was up to move abroad. So during my year out I kept some contact like how are you doing and so on. Like to don´t disappear and so on. So I´ve came back and we had beeing chatting let´s say a lot on MSN regarding random stuff like books, learning how to play guitar and this kind of fluff talk.
Happens we are reading some books with points in common and I´ve suggested her we should meet and trade them for a while and have a chat. She said she can but gave no idea about when or so and said she had to leave MSN to sleep So I got no answer concerning meeting her. But IMHO from what I´ve talked with her before this I must sleep was quite of self defense. She is quite shy. Still I´m not sure about what to do I can call and try again but with this in the air any more direct call will be obviusly considered a hit by her so I´m not quite sure about what to do. Ideias please?

keep her on the back burner, think of her as a side project that you really dont care what the outcome is, and look for new targets.


try losing rapport with her, this can mess with people as they sometimes will in turn try and build it back with you,

dont talk to her for several days, then just drop a casual hello, dont invite her to anything and appear apathetic to when we will meet.

try playing hot and cold with her.


these are just some ideas i had, i could be wrong, but if anything its another perspective on your situation.

good luck

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I´ve dropped her for now to don´t look needy but hot and cold wont work on this, I can sort of know why she would be recious like I dated her and just left to abroad. Still man got just one life no girl would attach me to a land in a way I would loose a chance to do university and work abroad. but as ive said before she is a cool girl. I enjoy staying with her So I would like to move it right.
Point must be said I don´t want to simply drop for good in the sense of looking like a pussy which has no balls to move on, still rushing is also a mistake :p

Beh Ive messed up even more, she messaged me in MSN and Ive instant answered. beh I do it to all ppl. :/ Conversation was oki I can make her really laught and talk a lot but I need to somehow move from this stage need a way to set up to meet her. Ive managed to go to movies once, but was not planed was like she was talking with me on MSN and I just came up like I want to see x movie have you seen she said no and I asked if she wanted to go but was not planed she accepted, was morethan easy.