So I was working one day and this kid that I work with his sister came to our work and told her brother she thought I was cute. Later that day when I got off work she added me on facebook. I messaged her and said "yo text me XXX-XXX-XXXX" and she did 5min later.

So we meet up with her at the hookah bar with a few of her friends and 2 of mine. and after the hookah bar she came to my buddy's house to drink and party. I didn't try to hook up with her.

So the next day she invited me to her friends house to go drink. So I brought 2 of my buddy's and me and her end up making out and then going up stairs and I was eating her out for a good hour and didn't even try to have sex with her. And then when I left she texted me saying "your friend told my friend something I didn't wanna hear" and I was confused and wanted to know what they said and she wouldn't tell me.

The next day I said "can you please tell me what my buddy said" and she texted me saying "your friend said that you do that a lot and hook up with girls" And i'm trying to convince her that i'm not a player.



Can somebody please help me. I told her to let me show her i'm not a player. I'm gonna go and take her out for lunch or ice cream or something. I just don't know what to do. Because deep down I know she thinks i'm a player. I don't want that in her mind at all.

if I didn't leave enough info please tell me

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Just own it. Of flip her frame. Tell her that all girls are predators. Tell her that you just innocently start conversations with girls, and that it's not your fault when they start hitting on you. Then complain about how angry girls get when you friend-zone them. =)

It doesn't really matter what you say. It's just a shit test. Girls LOVE guys who are good with girls. Being a "player" isn't a bad thing. Another thing you could say is, "sure I'm a player, but I'm an honest player." Girls just don't want to be lied to or feel like they were tricked into falling for a guy.

-Wolf

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it's attractive if you hook up with a lot of other girls. ideally you should've had sex though when you could because you would've been on an even playing field. now she might not want sex with you because she thinks you'll hurt her.

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