My biggest difficulty is getting the woman from being a guy who approached her in a bar, a stranger, to a friend who she enjoys being around. I'm really not sure what set of steps I need to follow. Qualifying very well and acting invested in her still doesn't help me get to that level.

I have to note that I still have a huge hatred and disdain for women because of the difficulty of the game. I don't think there is a way to rid that from myself without actually seeing success. The best I can curtail that feeling is by going into every encounter with the mentality that this girl might prove me wrong. She may prove to me that there are women that have courage and independence to meet a new person and be open to experiencing something new. I have yet to see anyone come close. All girls are feeble minded.

Every approach I have is basically exploratory. I'm casting a line to see if any of them has the balls to go for a bite. I talk to these women and 9.9/10 of them are entirely uninteresting.

How the hell can I get into the comfort phase when literally no women can make ME feel like they're anything more than something I want to fuck and forget?

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The problem isn't the women, it's you.

Women are something more than a good fuck buddy, you are letting your past define your future at this point. Women have a lot of things to offer a man other than sex if you choose.

You need to look at it in such a way that you are bringing something to the table other than your dick, you also provide good times. A woman can pick up on a selfish and bitter man pretty easy.

Lose the mentality, show girls a good time, make them feel good about themselves when they are around you, and your problem will go away.

The guy above me is right. You will never have success unless you start having fun with it. You should want to fail at first cause your not really failing, your finding out ways that it won't work is all. I'm not an expert by all means but when I go out I don't go to pick up women, I go to entertain my self and have fun. I says off the wall shit to and I'm not afraid of opening either. Anything is an opener and they all work....if you word it right with the right tone. Idk if you ever heard of Adam Lyons formula but if you haven't I suggest you look it up and live it. I usually go by it and it works. If you skip a step (which you can but the chances of it working goes down.) first comes comfort+ breaking rapport+ qualify + sexual escalation. You have to build comfort first then break not sever the connection. Give her time to miss you for a second and show her what's its like not to be having fun with you. (Breaking rapport can be anything from you disagreeing with her to you using the restroom while she is talking. When you come back move straight into qualifying her and get her to start opening up to you. You can ask yes or no questions, but get them to elaborate on them. That's real qualifying. Then start with the light kino to move into heavy kino and before you know it you will have her. Be warned tho. If something doesn't work or does t go right you've messed up somewhere but not to worry, just start from the beginning again and work it all over. Don't believe in pre mature rejectulation. It not you. Stay in the set until she tells you to leave directly or she leaves directly. If that happenes, don't worry, just smile like you just got done having the greatest conversation of your life and be polite. (Easier said than done sometimes) but just keep your composer so all the other girls don't see you unhinged. It showed weakness and desperation. Hope that helped

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