I'm pretty confident in my looks and I dress really really well. Always smell good. On the dates I'm cocky/funny and conversation always flows great. I haven't been on a single date where I haven't made her laugh and there has never been an awkward silence ever. 9 times out I'll end on a kiss (actual make out rather than just a peck). I leave every date confident that it went well.
My only reasoning behind not getting a 2nd here is that becuase I'm meeting them all on POF they just want to date and date and date moving from guy to guy becuase they have that option with the guy ratio on there.
Here is a quick/basic run down of my last 5 dates
Date 1 - Kiss closed. She text me after the date to say she had a lovely time. Texted throughout the week. No contact after I suggest date 2
Date 2 - Kiss closed. She text me after the date to say she had a lovely time. Texted throughout the week. No contact after I suggest date 2
Date 3 - Kiss closed. She text me after the date to say she had a lovely time. Text for a day or two and I told her I'd call in a few days. Called her. She answered. Chatted for a while. Mentioned date 2 she was cool with it. No contact after I finalise date the plans.
Date 4 - Kiss closed (only a peck). She text me after the date to say she had a lovely time. Texted throughout the week. No contact after I suggest date 2
Date 5 - Kiss closed (she was really in to it, I pulled away). She text me after the date to say she had a lovely time. Text over the weekend (quite lengthy texts on her part). Then no reply.
As you can see it's pretty much the same senario for every date. Even when I kiss close them I can't seem to get a second date. I always make sure we set it up loosely during the first date too so it's easy to transition to.
I know not all girls online are flakey as I've managed to secure a second date on 2 occasions before but lately everyone seems to just blow me off and I'm starting to get a little down about meeting all these woman and then nothing happening. What could I improve on to secure a second date? My fear is that girls think just becuase we kissed I want a full on relationship with them and that's why they stop replying. Could this be the case?
Any advice much appreciated, Thanks
(ps don't just say "stop dating girls online and go and date girls in real life ha).
CHAT