I've had women cancel dates and always wonder how to respond. Definitely freeze out for a couple days-depending on how much advance notice and how legit an excuse--but then what? Wait until they suggest another time or offer another date?

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Most of the time when I plan a day 2, its something I was going to be doing anyways. That way, if she blows me off, she doesn't feel like shes blowing me off. That way when I say "no big deal" she really knows its No Big Deal... cause I was going there regardless of whether she is with me or not.

I'm more about avoiding than anything. It's much easier to avoid flakes if you are doing something that doesn't seem like a "date." Remember, its about her being comfortable spending time with you. Doesn't matter what you are doing.

Good advice, for sure, thanks and will keep that in mind for the future. But what if she does flake?

I'm reading the consensus is to not make a big deal out of it, not act all superior and "how dare she," but let her know it's fine while not bringing up the rescheduling yourself. Particularly in this most recent situation where she let me know a day in advance.

Tricky thing with this most recent time is that I'm leaving on vacation next week and was hoping to make things happen before I left. Fine line between rushing things and missing out on an opportunity.

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