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Can someone explain and give example of what the attraction and comfort phase is and should sound like?
Attraction...
1. You approach
2. Open
3. Disqualify the target.
4. DHV Stories
5. The target will start showing interest in you.
6. You start showing interest in her and begin qualifying her and isolate her (if possible)
Once she lets you start qualifying her, attraction is over. You move into comfort.
Comfort is pretty much baby sitting. You get her comfortable with your touch and you as a person. You give her opportunities to express herself and compliment her on her personality and continue qualifying her(Don't over do the compliments and creep her out.) Comfort is basically telling stories about yourself that will let her open up and talk about herself, playing stupid little games with your hands, shit like that.. You ground your identity with her reality, find that you are on similar life paths and then you move into seduction (as long as you escalated kino properly. Without kino, you have nothing besides a girl who you made laugh for a few hours.)
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